poeple in my school call me that frecuently call me gay
2007-03-21 15:47:51 · 14 answers · asked by NoRNoR 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you? If not just blow it off. Who cares what other people think. Is there a grl at school you like? If so ask her out and prove your critics wrong.
2007-03-21 15:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by schneid123 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are several ways to deal with this, but the common theme is to rob them of the power that such a word can have.
1. Never respond to it in any way. If someone says it, and you have to speak, ask them about their homework or the most recent basketball game. If someone becomes insistent, saying, "Didn't you hear me, I called you GAY!" you can simply respond by saying, "I heard you, but I'm not gay, and I just thought it was the only thing you could think of to say. I figured that it would be more interesting to talk about something else, since calling someone gay is so boring."
2. Agree with them. Take out a piece of paper and a sharpie and have them make a poster announcing that you are gay. Heck, make the poster with them. Walk them into the Principal's office, and say that you want the Principal to know that "Johnny" has figured out that you are gay, and you think he deserves a reward. Do anything that robs the little twerp of the upper hand.
3. Pretend not to hear them and make them repeat it over, and over, and over, and over again. In this way making the statement can become a burden for them, rather than for you. After about the fifth time of saying, "I said that you're Gay!" followed by your leaning closer and saying, "Did you say I'm Jay? My name isn't Jay, it's Leon," they should become weary.
Remember, you want to make the statement that you are gay less powerful than your response. Keeping that in mind, you should be able to come up with a few options of your own.
Good Luck.
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2007-03-22 11:41:46 · answer #2 · answered by NHBaritone 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your not gay than say so. If you are gay tell them to kiss your you know what. It is not something that is any ones business but yours. Sexual preference is a private thing. And if you act like it is private, it will be private. If your not gay, I think the thing to do is tell everyone to bugger off. If you are gay ignore them they will think of someone else to pick on..ignorant people usually have short attention spans. When people are ignored they tend to find something else more fun to pick on. Today sexuality is just to public. It is really a private thing. It really bugs me when people do that. So I just change the subject and move on to more important things.
2007-03-21 16:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by fnbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you gay? then you shouldn't mind.
if you are not gay, then maybe figure out why they call you gay and try to stop doing it.
if they just call you gay because they're trying to be jerks, then ignore them. i know its hard, but sometimes if you let them see that it bothers you, it makes it worse. also remember that when you get to college, things will flip on end! the "cool" kids in high school will become loosers and followers. you will shine in college! :) just stick it out for a little while. don't let them get to ya.
and being gay is not actually a bad thing (depending on your upbringing)...
2007-03-21 15:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by barbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are in school people will do this, guys and girls alike, its just an immature expression that is WAY overused. I wouldnt take it too personally, unless they are using the remark as it was intented and they do in fact think that you are gay, maybe just flaunt your heterosexuality, go out with some hot chick, or ignore them. good luck!
2007-03-21 16:07:19 · answer #5 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude...be strong and confident with urself..cuz thats what people notice about a person....*** these ppl who call u that, if u know ur not gay then ignjore them. they're probably gay and cant accept the fact.
2007-03-21 15:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by Sean Lawlor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey norlyn am talking to u on da fone niggi lol just tell everyone at west dat dey suk and ima bak u up lol yahoo answers rok!
2007-03-21 15:53:48 · answer #7 · answered by girl b 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
believe me man, just ignore those types of people, let your sexual preference be of your business only and just plainly ignore people like that
2007-03-21 15:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by nickname 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i do not know what you look like but if you shave your legs thats probably y. start making jokes about it. hag out with your friends not those other people
2007-03-21 15:52:42 · answer #9 · answered by 12343464 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well are U ?
I'm just kiddn
you should be like yep totally, wanna go out? just make fun of yourself.
2007-03-21 15:50:57 · answer #10 · answered by Maysia. [[funcky-chic]] 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋