Should i tell him no to it or should i just be pregnante at age 14? help!!!!!
2007-03-21 15:45:12 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
you are unbelievably stupid
2007-03-21 15:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by Goosh T 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Where is your mama and why is she letting you go to this guy's house? You need to think about the question you just asked. You just asked if you should just get pregnant at 14....HELLO??? Did you really need us to tell you that wasn't a good idea? Secondly, you don't usually get pregnant while you are on your period, although it is possible...so DON'T chance it. Also, you can still use protection while you are on your period, so I don't get why you should "just be pregnant" which by the way, you didn't spell right. Stay in school, get an education and be really careful b/c if you don't you will end up with an STD. Think about the decisions that you are making at your age because you will have to live with them for the rest of your life.
By the way, how old is this guy? AND...Where are his parents?
2007-03-21 16:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by BeThAnY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, that is just silly, why would you even want to be having sex at 14? 2nd of all if you are going to, period or not you should use protection, not only to prevent pregnancy (which by the way the chances of getting pregnant while on your period are slim) but also to prevent std's my friend is only 24 and she already has 3 std's 2 of which she will never get rid of and could possibly pass on to her children someday. and guess what? she only slept with 5 guys. pretty sad huh? so do yourself a favor and use protection. good luck.
2007-03-21 15:52:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say, " I would, but its that time of month." say it like its no big deal, and he wont take it as a big thing. Its normal and hes probably just going to say, "oh that sucks. Okay then." It will be fine. Or if your too embarrassed, which you totally shouldnt be, its not like you can help it, say your too tired. But seeing as how a period lasts around 5 days, instead of coming up with excuses for 5 days and maybe make him think your mad or somethings wrong, id just tell him. Hope it helps.
ps
Its not impossible to get pregnant on your period, but very unllikely. If you guys still decide to do it, he will probably want a condom anyway, who wants to get blood all over their willy? lol. good luck!
2007-03-21 16:15:27 · answer #4 · answered by mandiliz06 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me?! Seriously. First of all, you're 14. you should NOT be having sex. You're obviously not mature enough to be having sexual intercourse if you have to ask questions like that. You kids are so naive!
First of all, you are on your period. the chances of you getting pregnant are slim to none. Secondly, you're 14. IF you're having sex with your boyfriend you should be wearing protection!! And pulling out is NOT considered protection. You need to be put on birth control and your boyfriend needs to always use a condom. and having sex on your period is very unsanitary.
And you tell your boyfriend that you are on your period, that you are not going to have sex.
You really need to start being more responsible and mature up. You're too young to be having sex. and like i said before you definitely don't seem mature enough, especially with the question you asked.
Before you get all into it, learn the facts about stds, pregnancies, and sex in general.
2007-03-21 15:53:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kiri 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, I know we all believe you are too young, but to answer your question...you should do what you feel is right. If you do go make sure you use sometype of protection. You should be on the pill and he should use something also. There is a lot of risk here for pregnancy and std's. Just let him know that you are on your monthly and I agree most guys don't want anything to do with that area that time of the month. JUST DON'T HAVE SEX BECAUSE HE WANTS IT!!! THAT IS WRONG!!! There is more to a relationship than sex!
2007-03-21 16:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by panther 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple solution. Dont have sex. If he has a problem with that than hes not worth your time and you should get rid of him. However, if you do have sex (which youre going to do if you want to no matter what anybody here has to say), then use protection every time. Not only does a condom help protect against pregnancy it helps prevent STDs. I'm sure you dont want an STD at 14 either.
2007-03-21 15:51:31 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are comfortable enough with him to have sex (at other times) but not to tell him when you're having your period????? Tell him...if sex is the only reason he wants you around, stay home. 14 is too young, anyway. However, if you're already having sex, someone telling you that you're too young is not going to stop you. Be smart.
2007-03-21 16:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by scoot711 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should just go t sleep or read a book or try watching TV. 14 is to young to be doing that stuff sweetie
2007-03-21 15:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your momma!
Where is your momma, I want to have a short discussion with her.
14 and going to his house so he can lie to you and use you for a masturbation device?
Dumb girl. You won't get pregnant because you're on your period. You'll get pregnant from continually having sexual intercourse-bucking (I wish I could get raw right now - damn wussy standards!).
Earf!
2007-03-21 15:52:48 · answer #10 · answered by TzodEarf 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask for what? And your 14 what should you be doing at his house at NIGHT? Just say I have to do homework, other wise, your still young. Way too young..
2007-03-21 15:48:15 · answer #11 · answered by CLUELESS! 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋