im just curious to what all of you have to say...
2007-03-21 15:06:23 · 21 answers · asked by miss clueless bout Life 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Nope. There is no magic age. You can be in love any time, but it usually starts as you become a teen. A serious relationship is a different story.
2007-03-22 08:06:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I believe love can happen at anytime, u may or not be ready for it, but love will come to you at the moment you last expect it.
And you may not be mature enough to handle a relationship but if it is real love then that is what will keep you together until you are both mature enough to take responsability in the relationship. Some people are not mature even during their late 20s, some people surprizingly find love and mature faster at their teens. Love will change the way u are, and it will motivate you to be a better grown up person if you were not ready before.
When you so call fall in love when u are in J.K or grade 3 , that is not love, that is called infatuation, it is when u like somebody or admire somebody for what u see, and because we all go thru a love curious stage, we pretend to b in love, but it is something that we create in our minds. when u are in love u are in love with the inside of the person,not the outide which is all u get when u are 4 years old and u havent developed a personality yet..
2007-03-21 15:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by v.n.d <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i don't think that there "has" to be a particular age, but i do think that there is a certain age when a person CAN fall in love... for instance, my little brother "falls in love" with every blonde hair blue eyed girl he meets (he is 11). but i don't think that he really falls in love, i would say he becomes infatuated with them... sort of a precursor to loving someone.
now if you're talking about parents setting an age limit for dating, i think that is in their every right, because they know how their children act and how mature they are, probably more so than the teen even. because if a teen is not mature enough to date, then they could end up being manipulated and hurt in the end.
2007-03-21 15:15:18 · answer #3 · answered by mr.vanker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think there's a particular age to fall in love, but I do believe there is a point in your life where you realize what love acctually is and what it really means. Im 22 and my son is 5 years old, and I just found out what love really is a Year and a half ago when I met my boyfriend now!
2007-03-21 15:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by chelsmat2001 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love can happen at any age once you know what love is.... its the whole fact of being able to support you and that person you love...which is the whole reason why people say you should wait until you're financially stable...which would be in like your 20's +
but you can fall in love as soon as you know what love is..and the person you fall in love with is the person you can be with for the rest of your life
2007-03-21 15:10:38 · answer #5 · answered by dramoonzer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say no, I believe that you can fall in love at any age. Now, I don't think you can truly be "In Love" until you understand what love really is. And the only way to understand what love really is, is to go through things with yourself and find out through experience what you want and need in a person. Then, you start seeking that person out. Even as a small child, I think that you gain your own perspective of what you think love is through how it is shown to you. Like a child who grew up with their parents constantly hugging them and kissing them and telling them that they love them, could either grow up showing that same affection towards other people, or they could grow up expecting that from other people, but never really understanding that they need to tell people or show them that.
I guess it's all just a learned experience, but I still stick with what I said before, I believe that you can fall in love at any age.
2007-03-21 15:17:14 · answer #6 · answered by Syn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it depends on many factors:
it can be psicological or physical. so no matter at what age a person falls in love i think that the important is the atraction mental or physical/sexual
in children this is just like curiosity but in teenagers it`s because the hormons are boiling and they consciously or subconsciously
start to feel that need and when they see older boys and girls in love then they feel like they need it too so they feel the need now not just phisically but also psicologically
but for me the ideal age to start a relationship is at 12 to get experience, so when they be 20 they`l have enough experience to keep the relation
2007-03-21 15:31:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just really depends. You can really fall in love whenever, whereve, however, most serious love begins as a teenager. I don't think that there has to be a particular age.
2007-03-21 15:12:18 · answer #8 · answered by Lefty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No everyone can fall in love. However how long it lasts and how deep it means are different. I only got involved once when i was 15 and it was good... but we changed very quickly and somtimes if you aren't mature enough the emotions can get the best of you.
2007-03-21 15:10:59 · answer #9 · answered by Chefdude101 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy each time you fall in love There will come a time when it becomes a rare event . Enjoy it at your immature level or your mature level. Unfortunately we cant get along easily after we fall in love. getting along is complex and more than just a match of auras.
2007-03-22 14:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋