unsure of what is appropriate. Being an adult and single (now), is it normal and considered ok to have sex early on?
Does anyone know of any good books to read from the book store that can help someone my age date?
2007-03-21 14:47:15 · 5 answers · asked by J girl 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
What is appropriate depends on you and what you're comfortable with. Don't limit yourself or have expectations of what can and can't happen. You just have to go with the flow. I don't think men think negatively about women who sleep with a man early on. But I have found that a good rule to go by is that if it's someone you really like and are planning on seeing them again, don't do it on the first date. Gives you something to look forward to. Now, to be honest, I am not 30, I am 27 and that's pretty close. I am also not single anymore, but I was a single woman in my mid 20's for a long time! The dating game is the same. You just gotta test the waters. And, as long as your safe, it doesn't matter who you sleep with. Just be comfortable with your decisions!
2007-03-22 10:49:14 · answer #1 · answered by mmt7997 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetheart....the game doesn't change...just the players in the game...meaning....however you feel comfortable being is the way you should go about dating....now im only 27....but i know how the game is played....the woman dictates the climate of the date....if you establish early that there will be no sex until you are ready, then the guy will have to play by your rules or keep it movin!!!....on the other hand if you give any indication that there may be some sex early on....the guy will try to make that happen as well....its not a question of whether or not its ok to do it early on....the question is, is it what you want to do?...is it what you feel comfortable with?....you being the woman...you have the God given power to determine which route the relationship goes in.....so even if you have been "out of the loop" so to speak....you are still in the driver's seat!!!!
2007-03-21 21:18:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 30, you can also most effective date one individual for the primary 17 years, and that individual ought to be a minimum of 50 years historical. After that, you'll be able to date 2 persons however every date ought to be a minimum of five years aside. Clear now?
2016-09-05 11:23:00 · answer #3 · answered by salvalzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllll...there are plenty of books for you!!!!!!!!!
Jemima J, Thirtynothing, The Shopaholic series, watch the television series Thirtysomething (even though it takes place in the 80's--still Fab!) The television shows Living Single and Friends depict groups of friends who make the transition from their 20's to their 30's. Dating in your 30's (I am 31) is Fab! Never forget as you get older you get wiser and smarter in your choices of mates---including the one!
Just to let you know sex is a beautiful thing---it can be done in so many ways, in so many positions and so many places.....so think safe sex also...very important!
2007-03-21 15:30:44 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds you're too scared on being 30, just relax let it flow, hang out with friends, chat or whatever.
goodluck dear!
2007-03-21 19:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by classy naima 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋