and he ask you out to the movies, dinner and also came to my house for on thanksgiving. but when you are out he talks about his past dates, andhe is always reminding you that we are just friends. then when i talk about a man he gets mad don't talk to for about 1 month.then when i see him he is telling me to leave
2007-03-21 14:21:45 · 17 answers · asked by coco 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I hope you don't consider him a boyfriend because he isn't. If he claims to be your friend, you need to talk with him and tell him it's a two-way street and that if he can't understand that, that you just can't be "just friends".
I hope you're not sleeping with him - this kinda guy can really mess with your head.
2007-03-29 05:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by J F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this guy has a problem relating to women. It's not going to get better unless you try to find out what exactly he is doing dating you. Tell him that if you are 'just friends', why does he get mad when you talk about a man? Tell him that you have friends and if he and you are just friends, then you think this is what you can talk about since you can talk about it with other friends.
Also, if he tells you to leave, say that you are leaving and he can figure out what is going on and then call you when he understands what is going on because you sure don't.
Then leave, stay away, write the guy off, forget him and move on. He's more 'screwed up' than you need in your life.
2007-03-29 00:06:49 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you trying to figure out craziness? Just leave him alone, apparently, he is not stable. Save yourself the hurt. Maybe he's bipolar and is not aware of it. I try to live my life as peaceful as I can get it and give people the same same respect as I deserve. Don't follow after his unsettles. Find another friend. When he want to talk to you, tell him you have something else to do at this time and excuse yourself from his unbalanced life.
2007-03-29 14:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is totally fickle! Don't waste your time going out with him. Maybe he talks about other dates to make you jealous, because maybe his feelings for you go deeper than just friendship & that's why he gets mad at you & sulks for a month, when you talk about a man, it's a different story then. Give this guy his walking papers & move on. He's too moody!
2007-03-28 08:33:23 · answer #4 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you tell us what you feel about him? Sorry, but have you also checked the reason in yourself why he has to remind you about just being friends?
I assume that you forbid him nearing you more than a friend by different means and make him confess every now and then.
This has happened to me too untill i realize that the girl likes me but she is not stable in mind(Plz Dont take it personal).
So, go to him and tell him that you like him and want him and help him to confess his real feelings.
Good luck. Nothing complicated if you are honest.
2007-03-26 05:14:02 · answer #5 · answered by mark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's "stringing you along" - like the others' said: He doesn't love you - I knew a guy like that once. He didn't want to "commit" to anything while in college. I felt like I was on "lay away" until he graduated, got the job he wanted and made the money he wanted before he would have make a serious relationship commitment. But - when he wrote to me (2 years later), after my husband and I became engaged... it was I who had to write him and tell him I was engaged and would be married. So - if he "loved" you. He wouldn't be so darn confusing. Go date others. Don't let him "string" you along!
2007-03-28 17:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by DotRMe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see this guy, I would give him a reality check-and remind him how he treats you! Wait and see how he replies. Than ask him how he would feel if you treated him that way!! I swear some people just do not realize how the talk, let alone come across to others when talking. So if this happens to me, I just say back to them what they rudely said to me. They look at me like I hit them or something, but you can be sure I got my point across. I just like myself way to much to put up with jerks like that! They can go find some dumb person-who will put up with their bull, OR they can treat me with respect-the way I want to be treated!!!! Try it-it works!!
2007-03-21 15:23:56 · answer #7 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This guy is playing games and is not looking to committee. If he keeps reminding you that you are "just Friends" then just so you know "just friends" don't have sex. "just friends" talk about there relationships. So tell him since your "Just Friends" what's his problem. I think he sense you want more then "just Friends" And he wants you around until he finds someone he can be more then "just friends" with.
This relationship is going no where .
2007-03-26 03:17:56 · answer #8 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means he's the center of his own universe, and your 'issues of the heart' scared him off. You're supposed to be the ideal woman with none of that 'baggage'.
Just ask a lot of questions and give your insights like a mother would. That will make him fee safe with you. Once you've done that, he'll accept some 'intrigue' from your side.
Don't forget ... men tend to be emotional cowards (smile).
2007-03-28 05:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sultan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it means that he likes you for sure and he was just probably really nervous and couldnt think of anything to say to you at the time so started talking about the first thing that came to mind and all guys get jelous but if he is that rude about it i think it would be best to just forget about him
2007-03-29 03:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Kayla N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋