i am very confident that i wont cheat on her with other women because marie is the first(and LAST)girl i have fallen in love with.but i used to date guys(no i never slept with any of them either.).i dont want to revert back to dating guys.is there anyway to prevent something like this?
2007-03-21 14:09:44 · 7 answers · asked by dream_hawk22 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Talk to her about it. If your having these sort of feelings, its best to get it out in the open.
Honestly, I don't know why people keep these things from their partners in case they lose them. If she is your partner, she will understand.
Your bi. Get used to it. Accept yourself for who you are, and get used to it. You can call yourself bi, and date a woman. If you are THAT interested in wanting to be with a guy, buy your woman a di|do and have her strap it on. Ya never know.
Have you ever seen Brokeback Mountain? The guy loved the other guy so much that he lost the woman he was to be with for ever? Watch it..then..maybe it will make up for some decisions...
2007-03-21 14:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't place yourself in any compromising situations. Personally I don't think you love her as much as you might think you do. You should be straight ... so to speak... with your lady love.
I once loved a guy who loved me. This was in 1977. We went to a party and i found out from someone who had no idea who I was that my fiance was a big hit at the steam baths. When I confronted him, he maintained that a woman like me was for home and love but men were for excitement and sex. That was the end of that.
What I hated about that propaganda bs movie Brokeback Mountain was the way the women were treated by their cowboy husbands. So figure out what you want before going any further with that young woman.
2007-03-21 14:25:45 · answer #2 · answered by Noor al Haqiqa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk with her. Mention to her that there is a possibility you might date a man again. Work out a solution that allows you to indulge this part of yourself.
If this is something that you both truly don't want, there are counselling organisations out there that can give you the help you need.
2007-03-21 14:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by xian 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really, it's called willpower, but you never know if she is your last one, and I cannot predict your future. I would say just remember that you are in a serious relationship, and that even though you are attracted to men, it's no big deal to still think about them, but just remember she is your girlfriend. my gf does not care that I am bisexual, in fact, she is bi-curious, so I can still remember how I was then, and that it is still me. Just enjoy her, and don't mess around. It's really that simple, just don't cheat, keep those urges under wraps
2007-03-21 14:15:14 · answer #4 · answered by paul86192006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are as in-love with her as you claim then you can control you "small head' because you are supposed to be thinking with the head attached to you neck and not the one behind the fly of your pants; i.e.i. it's called self-control!
2007-03-21 14:15:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of self-control? What the hell is wrong with people?
2007-03-21 14:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
everytime you think about dating guys stick your finger down your throat and vomit...
2007-03-21 14:13:26 · answer #7 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 1⤊ 6⤋