What do you think?
2007-03-21 14:00:59 · 2 answers · asked by OrangeCharlie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Not sure I totally understand your question, but if you're asking 'should my wife call a woman who's been stalking me', then I think, 'yes.' Although I wouldn't put your wife in harm's way, if this person is stalking YOU.
My bf ages ago had a Brazilian stewardess ex who every time she flew into town would come by the house and ring the doorbell for hours or leave hours of messages on the machine. She just wouldn't let up. She used to write on my car with lipstick... all sorts of weird stuff. He told her many times to go away, but she refused to listen and was convinced he still loved her.
One time she actually broke into our apartment, and we had to call the cops. I think seeing he and I together, being handcuffed by the cops, the threat of going to jail and the very public irrational display she put on, made her finally see the gravity of the situation (she could lose her job and her visa), and really sobered her up. We never heard from her again.
Maybe you could organise a meet with this stalker in a public place, and have a policeman come along too to give her a talking to? Good luck. There's some sick puppies out there.
2007-03-21 14:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!! If you ignore the stalker, she will run out of ammunition to emotionally terrorize you. Trust me, I have an online stalker that drives myself and my boyfriend crazy.
If the stalker continues to persist to dangerous levels, you should contact your local police department. DO NOT contact this person or have your wife do so. Avoid her like the plague.
2007-03-21 14:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by AnimalLoverGirl 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋