my last period started on jan 7 thru the 12th. i had sex with another man on jan 15 at 11:30 pm. i also had sex with my husband later the next week, my husband is white an the man i cheated with was black and i need to know that in the delivery room it will be a joyious event and not one that will send him packing. if my child comes out with a dark color he wil not handle it well as for i havent told him about the affair.
2007-03-21 13:55:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you go to www.pregnancy.org there is a calendar where you can check! I checked for you and it says that most probably the date of conception was on January 21, 2007 (if you have a 28 day cycle). Have you mentioned the problem to your doctor?! Perhaps he/she can give some advice!
I wish you the best of luck!!!
2007-03-21 19:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by INC0GNIT0 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You poor thang!! That's so crazy!
Sounds to me like "your husband" could be the daddy!
Here's why I think so!
I'm also pregnant! My last MP started on 1/15 and got pregnant on 1/29 and my due date is 10/22..
So, if youre last MP started on 1/7 then you would've been ovulating on or around the 21st (the 15th would've been to soon to be ovulating)..
Hope that all make since!!! And from calculating from a calander, your HUSBAND should be the daddy!!
Sweetie, I think it would be also be best to tell your husband!! It's for the best! he will still love you and the baby no matter what!!
But, you do what you feel in your heart is the right thing to do!!
Best of luck and Congrats on the baby!!
2007-03-22 11:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by MoMmY AlOrA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i was told i am due Nov 21st, and The doc estimated i got pregnant around Feb 14Th... So I'm assuming you may have gotten pregnant around Jan 21st 2007. i only say that around that time... it must have been after that date...because you had your period... but that may have been around the time the sperm entered.. cuz it can live up 2 7 days... and you can still have your period when you are pregnant if you are close enough.. everyones diff. The doctor will be able to tell you for sure though... precisely the time line your baby was conceived.... Im not one to judge and i hope all works out for you.. everyone makes mistakes... and you just gotta learn from them!! Best of luck to you and your baby!!
2007-03-22 03:11:25 · answer #3 · answered by Young_mom17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You conceived around Jan. 21 so if you didn't have sex between Jan. 15 and the 21st with your husband then your husband is probably not the father but it could be either one if you had sex around the time you ovulated. Best of luck.
2007-03-21 21:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by Miriam Z 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey most likely your husband fathered your baby because if u had the last day of your period on the 12th and had sex with the other man on the 15th you would most likely not be ovulating but if you had sex with your husband the next week it was far enough away from your last period for you to be ovulating if i were you i wouldnt worry i asked my sister about this also she is a wiz on all of the pregnancy and period junk and she said that it was your husband that more than likely fathered your baby. wish you luck and hope you dont do it again because realize the scare and worry your having now!!
2007-03-21 21:02:24 · answer #5 · answered by Lindsey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First day of last menstrual period: January 7, 2007
Estimated date of conception: Sunday, January 21, 2007
End of 1st trimester (12 weeks): Sunday, April 1, 2007
End of 2nd trimester (27 weeks): Sunday, July 15, 2007
Estimated Due Date: October 14, 2007
According to this site your due date is the 14th going by your last period but if i put in the due date of October 15th then it says you conceived on Monday, January 22, 2007
Good luck and i hope i helped in some way. I do not think it belongs to the man you cheated with.
2007-03-21 21:02:46 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It really could be either man's baby. You need to tell your husband you cheated on him, it would be better coming from you now then from someone else or when the baby is born. Also it would prepare him for the fact that the baby may not be his, as it's cruel for someone to think they are about to become Dad only to find out in the delivery room that it's not his baby.
2007-03-21 21:01:14 · answer #7 · answered by Amanda B 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It does not matter when you conceived this child you need to be honest with your husband. It is not a good marriage if you are living with lies. There is no way to know exactly when you conceived. Tell him be a good person and tell him it is the right thing to do yes he will be hurt but maybe you can work it out together. Best of luck
2007-03-21 21:03:56 · answer #8 · answered by mommieof1 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sperm can live for 3 days before fertilisation happens. Also, mixed race babies are born white and their colour develops over a few days...... if your baby comes out white and you think you got away with it, think again..... it could still go dark .
If you carry on you will come to resent this baby, tell your hubby now what happened and get it out of the way.
2007-03-22 12:29:11 · answer #9 · answered by RACHEL J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is really no way for us or anyone else to know. Sperm can live for up to 5 days. The only way to know will be a DNA test or of course, when the baby comes out mixed. You REALLY need to tell your husband, before things get worse.
2007-03-21 21:00:33 · answer #10 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋