but when they finally get married and can have it when ever they want they either turn it down or show little to know intrest? do they just go through dry spells? or do they get bored? i keep it spicy and change it up, i just hope i'm not going to have to beg for it for the rest of our lives together. help, any ideas to make it a more often thing, without cheating. i know there are a few of you out there that would have sugguested that.
2007-03-21 13:55:08 · 2 answers · asked by laura t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lack of novelty is boring to some people
but you've got the right idea - keep it spicy and change it around
don't always beg - handcuff him to the bed, blindfold him and make him your biyatch
and sometimes get him to handcuff you
2007-03-21 20:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by Orinoco 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lot of times, men sleep around so much because they need the ego-boost that women find them attractive. Not just one woman, but lots of women. Then they get married and feel like they've lost that.
You have the right idea. Keep changing things up and that should help, but you should never have to beg for sex. There are going to be peaks and valleys in your sex life when you're married, due to stress / bill / everything... the key is in how you handle that.
That's what marriage is for though, learning each other and keeping it interesting.
2007-03-22 14:21:14 · answer #2 · answered by ski4ever1977 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋