name the best ones youve got! i need them!
2007-03-21 13:39:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
..find someone new in your life to replace the one you lost. Best if this new person, hv different personality, hobbies, likes and dislikes.....a new friendship will help you forget about the one you have lost.
2007-03-21 16:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by gemini6187 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of what you will be like in 5 years. When I was love sick for some girl; my Dad would chase her away because her Dad was a cop and called an ambulance for me. He told them to send the cop the bill instead and said I could never be with her. Of course my Dad used to say that I was delusional. So, what's the point on believing she ever liked me anyway? I learned how to make my favorite treat; Chocolate Eclairs from scratch.....almost. I would mix the custard with store box pudding. The icing was made from using real cocoa but I would add almond extract to it. I'm pretty sure the icing was what made it unique and addictive.It wasn't as thick like most frosting are. I think I was around 13 at the time. Being love sick for someone at least for me had been an addiction. Don't replace it with another one. I made these treats for others in my family and not to get fat on from being depressed. There will be many others you will also be addicted to in your life too. Ask your parents, maybe they have some stories like this.
2007-03-21 14:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that having a rubber band around your wrist and snapping it when you think about them helps. It never did for me. I needed to be a new person. I got my hair cut and thought my life into different things. i began to volunteer and do things that felt good to me. I wish you all the luck in the world. It is very hard. You are not alone. all of us have been there, but that doesn't make it any easier. Just get through and make yourself a life.
2007-03-21 13:47:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Myself personally I try to preoccupy myself with friends and hobbies. It may be hard but everytime you find yourself thinking of that someone just change subject or write how you feel or what you are thinking of in a way that anyone can relate to or just make it work for you. Don't for get to remind yourself of why this person isn't worth your time and how much better you'll be without them.
2007-03-21 13:47:53 · answer #4 · answered by heysmile4getwrinklez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it has anything to do with an old flame, send your answers to me too. But a recent trip to my therapist, don't laugh, made me realize what is healthy. Private thoughts are healthy, sexual fantasies are healthy. Obsessive thoughts are not healthy, if they are making you drift into fantasy more than reality you should probably talk to someone. But if not, you aren't hurting anyone (are you :P) give your mind some exercise and enjoy.
2007-03-21 13:46:09 · answer #5 · answered by erin c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Based on my own experience, to stop thinking about someone is diverting your attention into something interesting to you like engaged into sports you like and have fun with your life...
2007-03-21 13:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Brian Bri_Bar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep yourself busy - my best way is gymming - thats my cure for everything! gets the endorphins flowing and makes u feel fab!
good luck hun!
x
2007-03-21 13:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by third space 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think of someone u dont like.........
or take the brain off
2007-03-21 13:44:08 · answer #8 · answered by dancingdoll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋