Over the past month, my friend has been calling me a lesbian. I am so not a lesbian and I am NOT attracted to girls, for I currently like SEVERAL guys at the momment, and I am not bi! (I wear make-up, jewlewry, miniskirts, dressses, and I flirt with guys) I have told her to stop MANY times and she apologized a few weeks ago. Now she is ignoring the fact she apologized and makes fun of me. I don't know any good comebacks to say or how to respond in a nice, yet firm way. If you have ANY ideas at all, I would really appreciate it. Thanks people! This joke is really, really out of line and rude and it is making me sick! Oh yeah, I am attracted to GUYS ONLY!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 13:35:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
If it isn't true, it doesn't matter. The bigger you make this, the more she's going to bully you with it. If you simply must respond, tell her something like,
"You said that was our secret, precious!"
"I am, but I wouldn't stoop to doing you"
"Your mom wasn't complaining"
You get the idea. When you asked her nice it didn't work. You will probably be better off ignoring it completely.
2007-03-21 13:41:28 · answer #1 · answered by E_Tard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through school being teased and the best come back that I can think of that will shut anybody's big mouth up is the good ole' reliable "takes one to know one" she is more than likely the gay one of you two and is suffering from a major case of self-denial so tell her the tried and true and if she still doesn't stop just don't have anything to do with her, she will get the point because that doesn't sound like a very good friend.
2007-03-21 21:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry but this happens to almost every girl. Its called them being mean. any girl can tell you this. Your not alone, I had the problem, so did a lot of girls. I know how you feel, makes me feel like crying, there so mean to say that when its sooo not true and just made-up crap. First I point out that it shouldn't be used as in insult anyways, thats very homophobic to use it as an insult, its a bad one. But they may just make fun of you more for saying that. Know that you are not alone. Tell your friend thats its really mean and that your not sure you want to be friends with a person who makes fun of you. If she cant respect you, dont respect her!
2007-03-21 20:43:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, your only young once.
If your not gay and your not a lesbian, why are you trippin?
Let it go. Maybe she is teasing because she secretly wants to do you.
If you don't like it, say this.."Why are you calling me the lesbian, when secretly you want to do me? Are YOU the lesbian? I am sorry, but its a guy that I want and if you want me, your gonna have to find someone else like me, because I don't swing that way."
Obviously if she apologised, she is not sympathetic enough to aknowledge that she said she was sorry.
Only you can tell her that. If you still are having a problem with it, tell her if she wants to remain friends, to stop it, or get new friends.
Being a lesbian is not bad. If she continues to call you a lesbian, kiss her, look at her and say, naw..never mind, didn't feel it. Maybe then it will change her opinion?
2007-03-21 21:12:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a very good friend. If you already told her you don't think it is funny and she doesn't respect that, lose her. You know who you are and it shouldn't matter what other people say but a friend should respect you.
2007-03-21 20:45:27 · answer #5 · answered by Brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay girlfriend.........tell your friend and anyone else to kiss your ***!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do they pay your bills, put food on your table, put gas in your car...........NO! Give them a little sistah attitude and believe me they will leave you alone. Do your thang, Girl!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 20:52:19 · answer #6 · answered by Gerry 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend , Dump your friend and find new ones.
2007-03-21 20:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by Please call me ( Sissy ) 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just say, "whatever, it's not my issue" and ignore them.
2007-03-25 20:05:16 · answer #8 · answered by DW2020 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋