I am a 15 year old girl and know lots of cute boys. I'm shy and quiet around people I don't know. I like this guy at my school, but I'm not sure he even notices me. What should I do? Most people say nothing to me. Really I don't talk to anyone unless they are my friends or they say something first. I don't want to stay quiet towards him forever. What should I say?
2007-03-21 13:33:16 · 11 answers · asked by Babygurl78 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm the same way, almost exactly. I don't usually talk to people who aren't my friends, even when I want to. I have a hard time finding the right things to say. Anyway, I liked this guy in August and I really wanted to talk to him, but could never work up enough courage to. I've liked him ever since, and I finally said "hi" to him last week. (SEVEN months later!) It felt soooo good to finally talk to him, but I feel stupid because I wasted so much time thinking about talking to him. If you like this guy, talk to him. Don't let him go just because you're shy. I know you can do it. Good luck!
2007-03-21 13:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by i-wanna-write 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to work on not being so shy. Being shy will hold you back your entire life.....relationships, college, career, marriage, and life in general. Join a club where you feel more comfortable and try to talk more. Every day make a promise to yourself to talk to one new person, even if it is just "Hi." Smile more. A good way to change being shy is to get a new hairstyle, something cute or different and not anything freaky. Then when you come back to school, smile and you will be noticed. Learn to say something first. It's easy once you learn that you can do it. Give it a try. You have your whole life in front of you.....join in the fun!
2007-03-21 20:39:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out by smiling and saying, "hi, how are you, how's it going with you?".... a few more questions and answers bounced between the two of you will lead you into a casual conversation.... and you will learn more about each other. Think of conversation as bouncing the ball back to each other... keep the ball going and you'll keep the conversation going. don't say you love him or like him just yet. that might freak him out. get to know him better, what he likes, doesn't like, favorite sport or subject in school, etc. that's where to start. Good luck!
2007-03-21 20:43:54 · answer #3 · answered by blueskies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try getting involved in some of the activities he's interested in (clubs are a good place to start.) That way, you can get to know him in a social setting. That will help you to realize whether or not you really want to be in a relationship with him, friendship or otherwise.
2007-03-21 20:37:50 · answer #4 · answered by Pichu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and when you see him try to have a casual conversation.You can say how are you for starters, and mention something about his clothes or something, nice shirt where did you get it etc..... That's a way to break the ice. I hope this advise helps you and good luck.
2007-03-21 20:41:43 · answer #5 · answered by reddchilds 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well im a guy and i dont usually know what to do during a stituation like this lol. Well start talking to him try to know more about him and u know talk alot at school.
2007-03-21 20:38:49 · answer #6 · answered by Larry C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if your shy, you should talk to him, at least some. Let him know how you feel. Who knows he may feel the same way and may also be shy as well.
2007-03-21 20:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Broker Lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't look dumb. Ask him who he likes before you tell him how you feel. If nobody, then get a friend to pretend she's gossiping and tell him who you like. All the while look as sexy as possible.
If he likes somebody else, then don't bother. He isn't your mate, you 2 aren't meant to be maybe.
Go on, ASK!
2007-03-21 20:47:34 · answer #8 · answered by ♥ pandaheart ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go up to him and tell you how you feel right away because if you wait any longer he might be with someone else and you will regret that you haven't told him the truth. So go and tell him and express to him how you feel. Good Luck
Kev
2007-03-21 20:41:33 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well why dont you get with one of your friends since they're so much easier to talk to, you dont want to be with someone youre uncomfortable with anyways, seeing as though youre 15 its still cute for you kids to pass notes or have one of your annyoing friends say you like him
2007-03-21 20:38:46 · answer #10 · answered by spuglas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋