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I have been having an odd marriage for over 4 years. My husband has been residing in a separate home from me. I have asked him for changes. He wants to always go away and have a good time on various holidays whilst I sit back on raise my kids on my own. I have saved up enough money for a block of land and have done it on my own. I have begged him to think about the future but he won't. if I go out with my friends I am not allowed to but he is. I feel that this isn't an equal relationship. I have asked for a divorce and he doesn't want one. He is not prepared to make sacrifices and come to the party. He also is becoming a controlling person and thinks that I am off with someone else which I am not. I am sick of this. I asked him for my share in his superannuation and she has stated that I am not entitled to it because I did not bring an income into the home and my obligation to raising his children, our daughter and my own. Equallying 6 children. Is this fair critisism

2007-03-21 13:29:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

6 answers

of course he doesnt want a divorce hes got it made while you are living half a life and are his built in babysitter for the kids! girl get a lawyer and file for a divorce this is not a marriage you have and its no way to live for you or the kids.most states are community property and he knows it ,if you dont have prenup you are entitled to half of all property and money and retirement investments etc., plus child support.it doesnt matter if you never worked at a job outside the home a day in your life.taking care of the kids the house and being his wife is a job!he is not at all fair you deserve better get out now!good luck!

2007-03-21 13:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by dixie58 7 · 0 0

Your case seems a little complicated and I think both of you really need to sit down and talk things over. What made the marriage go into this direction and what can be saved. If you need more help, maybe you can get the marriage counsellor for assistance. Both of you have to compromise and not put every responsibility into your own hands. Good luck.

2007-03-21 20:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0 0

I sorry to be the one to tell you but your husband is a axxhole. He is treating you like a dog not his wife. Why should he get to do things but you dont. Heck you might as welll be w/ someone else theres no marriage here. You said you have money saved up go get you a place of your own see how he likes it w/ out you and maybe you will be able to find time for yourself w/ out him good luck.

2007-03-21 21:06:19 · answer #3 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0 0

You need to find yourself a man!

He has told you and now he is showing you that you are beneath him. Your relationship isn't based on equality because he don't see you as an equal and neither do you see yourself as an equal.

I have heard about "different strokes" but this is bizarre.

2007-03-21 20:43:59 · answer #4 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0 0

Doesnt sound like your married now. I just went through a lengthy speration. We were actually divorced the day it started because we slowly gave up.

2007-03-21 20:33:14 · answer #5 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 0 0

wow! girl! get rid of him take ur kids and move on! hes not worth trying to fix a already broken relationship. Be strong and hang in there. GOOD LUCK!

2007-03-21 20:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Yvonne 1 · 0 0

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