ok kinda a long story....my wife and I are driving home one night and a guy friend of ours calls and asked what we are doing.....my cell cut out and he started laughing and sid you just came from a swingers club??? My wife asks what im laughing at so I tell her ......and she laughs and says wow!!!!! So a couple of days pass and she starts teasing about him being the president of our new swingers club...we laugh again. Then a few more days go by he calls and she has me tell him the he is suppose to be the president of the new swingers club we are starting...He laughs as we all do...then time goes by...he calls ...she answers and starts teasing him about swinging......when I get on the phone with him he asks me if she is for real.....I laugh and say I dont know...so i teasing ask her and she laughs and says she is just having fun.....we have been married a long time and we are all in good shape physically.....and she is very attractive for a lady in her early 40's...
2007-03-21 13:27:50 · 12 answers · asked by Mike N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol is she seriously thinking about swinging is what I was trying to ask..
2007-03-21 13:31:01 · update #1
Ask her obliquely about her interests. "Have you thought about doing that other than joking?" perhaps might get the information you seek.
BTW, it's pretty much a lead pip cinch she's thinking along those lines.
2007-03-21 13:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.. shes seriopusly thinking about it.. and if ya'll can handle it emotionally its really not a bad thing You might be suprised.. i wouldnt and never have gotten involved in a sexuallly exclusive relationship even in life (and ive even been married before even..) thats a prerequisite with me.. But i dont cheat.. and i dont sneak etc.. its all known up front and ita all agreed on...
but yeah shes serious LOL.. and well you prob are too.. its not a big deal really.. its just sex.. but do it together.. BTW swingers are VERY VERY down on cheaters (more so than the regular couples) never try to cheat with a swinger.. they will burn yer *** in a heart beat and go out of thier way to do it...
2007-03-23 01:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Ask her. She might only be teasing... there might also be some semblance of truth to it. But only asking her, not us, will answer that question for you.
If it is something you two are considering, please check-out The Swingers Board. It is free forums discussing swinging from all angles, those just thinking about it to those that have been in the swinger lifestyle for years. You'll get all your questions answered there by knowledgeable people.
2007-03-22 06:59:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to say NO!
My sister did swinging for 2 years, and now has a criminal record for lued conduct in front of minor, I can't go into full disclosure because of minor child, and gage order by court!
she got six months in prison and 3 years of probation!
She lost her marriage,her son who now live s with us, her step daughter her jerk husband who was also swing at this party, and did not get charged!
My wife and I go to counseling with our nephew with a trauma specious in child assault and , the thing I have found out have been horrible and I'm a Marine !
Stay away from this whole idea of swapping, and put her first and foremost in your life, and hold your marriage true to each other!
2007-03-22 21:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by Free-Lance 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her. It sounds like she could be interested in your friend. If it is something you both want to do, set some ground rules and then maybe give it a go. Make sure you both totally and completely agree on any and all rules before you go ahead with this. Be aware that it could make or break your marriage.
2007-03-21 13:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by suzi Q 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Her answer was she was just having fun. So unless you want to directly ask her then you will never know. I do not see any indications here that she wants to swing, but I do see all the humour in it. If you are thinking about it you will have to ask your wife if she wants to for real. take care Heather
2007-03-21 13:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she`s just taking the joke too far.Talk to her before this gets embarrassing!
2007-03-21 13:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by HC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably just over doing a joke
2007-03-21 13:31:47 · answer #8 · answered by PuckDog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she is trying to open the door for a discussion about it. why not bring it up without laughing about it so much? lol : )
2007-03-22 11:22:28 · answer #9 · answered by WhiteDove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only she can answer that question, so ask her. Let me know what she decides.
2007-03-22 01:10:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋