i am a bisexual and i am sexual attracted to one of my close friends who is a girl.i love spending time with her.when i see her i my heart pounds and i get butterflys in my belly. the down side to this is that she is not a 'bi'which really gets to me.what should i do cos my feelings for her are gettin stronger and stronger but im scared to tell her my real feelings incase it spoils are friendship im stuck.
2007-03-21 13:23:55 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would like try to control myself if I valued the friendship. I am not Bi either and if a good friend of mine said she were attracted to me in a sexual way I would be very uncomfortable about it. If she is not interested in that sort of thing you need to respect who she is and start looking for someone who would be interested. The fact of the matter is Bi or not, when looking for love, we all have crushes that are not reciprocal. If that person is not interested for whatever reason we just need to move on.
I do wish you my best though.
2007-03-21 13:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it could be hard to have a relationship with ur Friend cuz they r not bi. and maybe they'll freak out if u tell them u r sexually attracted to them. I think that u should really think about ur friendship together, would u like to loose a good friend, Do u think that u could let go of your feelings as hard as it is? good luck hope things work out for u. I think u should try to talk to ur friend about this
2007-03-21 20:43:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bluey07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. or maybe she waitiing for you to say somthing to her, cuz now i'm waitng for my boyfriend to accpet or not?
2007-03-21 20:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by xDi0rAngelx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shouldn't tell her because she might look at you differently.
2007-03-21 20:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋