Is there something (perhaps a goal) in your life that always eludes you, no matter how hard to strive to reach it? If so, what is it and do you ever think that you'll be able to achieve it?
2007-03-21 13:14:19 · 8 answers · asked by Cherish 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi city girl. Yes, I have one. I always under estimate myself and sometimes dont trust my decisions. I really need to gain more confidence, especially in myself. I've been doing pretty well lately, so yes, I think that I'll be able to achieve my goal!
2007-03-21 23:57:28 · answer #1 · answered by pebbles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many things have eluded me for years, but I find that if I never give up, some of the things that I thought I would never grasp would come to me.
If you never give up, always try new methods, and remain positive but realistic at the same time, then you can achieve anything. Some things just take longer than others and many times, you'll look back and realize you've been doing the completely wrong thing the whole time and that that was the reason you never seemed to put it in your grasp.
One thing that has eluded me for a while now is to confront a certain person about the past and get rid of some tension between ourselves. I've let this sit for too long and I'm a bit worried that the other person has moved on by now and that talking wouldn't have any use. I myself have sort of moved on already and I'm worried that if this isn't such a big deal to me anymore, then it also isn't a big deal to the other person and there's just going to be a small hole in our lives for the rest of our lives. I hope that one day, we'll finally be able to understand each other and know the true meaning behind our actions.
However, right now, I'm not treating this goal like how I treat all my other goals in my life, and instead of being positive, never giving up, and trying new things, I've been letting this issue sit and running away from it. I don't feel like I'll ever be able to confront the past because this certain person is a living reminder of my past of pessimism, stubbornness, letting everything slip away from me and elude me.
2007-03-21 20:38:03 · answer #2 · answered by Jimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ability to pay off any bill collectors.Winning the lottery or any slot machines. The notion of a third yet successful marriage.I'm much more successful at failure and Quite masterful at procrastination. I am still looking forward to the Golden Age after 2012.
2007-03-21 21:04:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want to be a basketball star, I try real hard but I have stumbling blocks. I'm white, have two left feet, one arm, and stand two feet six in stocking feet. Ah! such is life.
2007-03-21 20:27:56 · answer #4 · answered by Charles H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to understand people. One person in particular who has always left me confused.
2007-03-21 20:35:09 · answer #5 · answered by Adelaide V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Russian.... I can't roll my Rs and people... they're just so hard to understand!
2007-03-21 20:29:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
absolute,unshakable confidence.I always have that little doubt...
2007-03-21 20:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my sanity
2007-03-21 20:32:07 · answer #8 · answered by Mon-chu' 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋