I like to cyber play with other women, swap pics and talk dirty. Am I cheating on my wife?
2007-03-21 13:07:29 · 33 answers · asked by Carson 3 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Well if your wife thinks it's cheating, then it is a betrayal to her. What does she think? Would she be upset? How would you feel if she did that - would you think she is cheating? While it's not technically "cheating" in the biblical sense of the word, it's prolly not gonna make your wife real happy.
2007-03-21 15:37:13 · answer #1 · answered by sweet pea 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You absolutely are cheating. The only woman you should be "playing with, swapping pics with, and talking dirty to is to her. How would you like it if she did all of the above with other men? And even if you don't think she would mind deep down she probably does and I think you should treat her as you would want her to treat you. If you even have to ask all of us this question then you are probably doing something wrong. Cybering is a really cheap and disrespectful thing to do especially when you are married. Take care
2007-03-21 13:24:16 · answer #2 · answered by carly071 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating -- you are lusting after other women in your mind and in your heart. That is cheating just as sure as if you did the deed. Even flirting with others online with mild sexual inuendos is wrong. Your wife or significant other should be the only one you give those attentions to and talk sexy or romantically with. If you do with anyone else it takes away from your realtionship and will cause irreperable damage to it if you continue.
2007-03-22 03:50:54 · answer #3 · answered by girlnamedmaria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your hurting your wife.
Your being turn on by another woman, wife's don't like that, that's her job not some other girl , so to your wife your cheating on her.
And it's not like picking up a book or a movie, this is someone that your communicating with a real person,
when you get Bord with that , will you then think of going out to meet this person.
bet your wife will be thinking about that.
2007-03-21 13:16:21 · answer #4 · answered by ღ♥ஐcookie1ஐ♥ღ 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Yes!! You are cheating on your wife,you
shouldn't even be thinking about
another woman! You are a married man!
2007-03-21 15:08:59 · answer #5 · answered by lilangel_04_02 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can become a problem. I had a guy who did that (I was engaged to him) and I didn't feel comfortable with it. He later admitted he did cheat. It's a mental thing. You think your not but in your brain you want to be with that person you are showing yourself to. Eventually the cam won't be enough. Cut hte crap and be faithfull and honest. If she's ok with it then keep going. If she shows some discomfort towards it stop.
2007-03-21 13:13:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yeppers
2007-03-21 13:16:25 · answer #7 · answered by ~The Medieval Islander~ 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask your wife! If she just laughs and says, "Great, hon! Have fun! I do it too!" then the answer is that you're not cheating. Otherwise, yes, you are, and you know it.
2007-03-21 13:35:50 · answer #8 · answered by Husker41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah , ya are if you're talking dirty. I think its Ok to talk to someone else as long as you keep it clean, and not bad mouth your spouse to other woman- which is a betrayal. .
2007-03-21 13:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by Jacqueline M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No duh!!! The only person who you should ever talk dirty to is your wife. You should be ashamed of yourself! If you keep this up, it could hurt your marriage. If you keep this up, pretty soon you won't enjoy being with your wife anymore, which could eventually lead to divorce.
2007-03-21 13:19:28 · answer #10 · answered by Prayer Warrior 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋