I seen my ex the other day for the first time in months. Since she has seen me last I have lost 20 pounds and am in better shape than when she met me. She didn't say anything but I am sure she noticed. Everyone does. Ladies - Would it p*ss you off if you got divorced and the next time you saw your ex he was in the best shape of his life?
2007-03-21 12:52:17 · 8 answers · asked by PuckDog 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
And no I didnt get in shape to make her jealous. Just trying to improve myself
2007-03-21 12:53:39 · update #1
yeah for sure its natural
cause you think now why didnt he look like that when he was with me????
hey why oh why
2007-03-21 12:56:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That! I will never be angry of the shape but what I will be angry of is if you are the same person. To me it does not matter now because I love my husband just the way he is.Even if we went thought a big fight but I know in the next two Min's. I do all sorts of things to make him laugh and forget what we were angry about. To me that's how relationships stay long lasting.
2007-03-21 20:30:34 · answer #2 · answered by fabienne James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the better question is "why do YOU care?" Could it be that somewhere way down in your tiny soul it made you feel just a little bit great to see her smolder a little?
Of COURSE it does! It would me too, pal. Especially if she did the dumping. We're all human and just a bit petty when it comes to the old ego stuff.
NO, I wouldn't be pissed off but my ex went out and bought all the furniture I begged him for when we were married and yeah, it stuck in my throat a little so I can see the logic.
Enjoy it. Just don't tell anybody. It makes you look childish and well...male.
2007-03-21 20:09:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My ex-husband IS in shape... But I don't really care. Why would it even matter to me?
2007-03-21 19:58:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. He/she's an ex. My ex husband did that after our divorce. I was happy for him that he was taking pride in the way he looks. It didn't bother me one bit.
2007-03-21 20:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it wouldnt could care less what he does and this happened to me with my ex, and it really didnt matter he is the past and thats where it stays...
2007-03-21 21:34:38 · answer #6 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would not p*ss me off but it is totally impossible. Will never happen. lol
2007-03-21 20:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The person he is inside, will never change, even if the outside does, so my answer is no.
2007-03-21 20:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by smileyone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋