im tryna to get this guy Ben to knock me up but idk how to turn him on ya know? I really wanna have a baby, someone to love. Idc about money from the guy I jus want his kid. How do I get him?
2007-03-21 12:45:15 · 21 answers · asked by Lizzy-Dizzy 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
yup im 14 w00t
2007-03-21 12:49:44 · update #1
maybe you could rhyme your way into his bed
(I hope he sees this and runs like h*ll !)
2007-03-21 12:54:30 · answer #1 · answered by ~*common sense*~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this is the dumbest thing i've ever heard...
u want a baby to love and cherish and have as your own, oh how sweet - for when ur older, more mature and ready to handle the consequences
have u ever seen the hell teenagers go through during and after giving birth so young?
NO life insurance, NO child support, NO way of supporting a kid whatsoever, enabling urself to fail in school and life, struggling to handle the simplist of jobs while worriyng for the safety of ur kid, oh and good luck finding a guy to marry and support u, IT'S UTTER HELL for men to be involved with underage single mothers - not to mention IT'S ILLEGAL...
i mean the list goes on and on...
so unless ur a mentally retarded 14 yr old girl who loves to babysit and gets joy out of seeing and caring for little kids, this is by far the dumbest idea (and i think i can speak for most of the ppl. here) that any of us have ever heard
have u ever had sex-ed? in fact have u ever even had an orgasm? i'm willing to bet that u don't even know what that truly feels like, u just got a slight sensation and thought awesome, i'm having sex!
do u know anything about sex aside from the rediculous lyrics u hear in todays pop and rap and the tv u watch? (and understand that these ppl are much much older than u)
underage sex is one thing, and hell its not unnatural for guys and girls to do so starting at the national average age of 15-16,,
- but to actually WANT a baby so young, to put another guy in that situation, to pretty much ruin his life as well as urs so early on (i.e. making him remain stuck to the situation, if not going to jail for "mishandling" a minor) is mind-blowing
good luck with the rest of ur life, i hope u make the right choice, and i hope u find the right ppl. to talk to and get answers from (i.e. docter, parent etc.)
2007-03-22 20:09:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is NOT a good idea and I must strongly discourage you from doing this. Having a child so that you have someone to love you is not a good reason to get knocked up. What makes you think that this guy wouldn't want to have something to do with this baby? You would be deceiving him and that isn't right of you to do.
2007-03-21 19:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by ashleighshea1982 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is most stupid thing I've ever heard. How can you conceive a kid with out love. How can you have a kid knowing that the father might not be involved. That is the most irresponsible thing I've ever heard. YOU NEED HELP. If you want some one to care for buy a DOG!! A child is a big RESPONSIBILITY
2007-03-21 19:51:36 · answer #4 · answered by Jazmin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's the most pitiful question that I have read. You're very adolescent sounding. Why in the world would you want to cut you life short by changing baby diapers and feeding formula. My opinion is you have not idea what this world is like and you're a baby yourself.
2007-03-21 19:52:20 · answer #5 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What. the. hell.
I'm 14 and am much more intelligent than you. Want to know what girls at my school call girls like you? Whores, that's what. Get a grip, get a life, and I certainly don't mean the life of an infant. Reevaluate your life, so far it seems pretty screwed up.
2007-03-21 20:16:10 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you are really weird..
u want 2 have sex wit a boi and get pregnant just so u can sho a baby sum love. instead of havin a baby just go buy a cat and sho that thing sum love.
u freakin wierdo..
2007-03-24 22:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must always be yourself but never trap a guy into having a baby! that is so cruel! you need to think about the responsibility that follows having a baby. think about it.
2007-03-21 19:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by chipper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, from the way you write, you must be like, what, 13? you don't want to get pregnant, girl. trust me. unless spending the rest of your life in mama's basement living on WIC sounds like fun to you!
2007-03-21 19:48:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well how about you wait a couple of years oh say till your are married.
2007-03-21 20:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by speedy >>> 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋