I'm 16 years old, I'm smart, intelligent, good looking, I'm 5 ft 7 in, hazel eyes, brown hair (bleached blonde), I work out and eat well and I shower and shave daily and take good care of myself and I have a few good friends and sometimes I can be shy but once I get comfortable I can talk a lot, and I'm not nosy or stuck up at all and I respect everyone's feelings all the time.
So why don't girls like me?
2007-03-21 12:41:37 · 28 answers · asked by etc. 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
16 & nice enough guy, eh?
Whadya drive?
How do ye dress?
Girls are very shallow at that age. Bad boys, cool cars & abuse.....I don't know why, but that's what most go fer at that age.
Don't rush into anything out of desperation. Good things come to thse who wait.....GREAT things come to those who wait to pick through the good ones!
2007-03-21 12:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by ~The Medieval Islander~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Please don't take this the wrong way, but nice guys finish last. All the time, every time.
However....by continuting down your path (good hygeine, etc...) you will meet a girl (or girls) and being the nice guy will be worth it. Just be a good friend. That will eventually go a long way. Plus, you'll be able to learn more about girls/women by being their friend than compared to being a bf or whatever.
You will meet a girl.
Then, she'll break your heart, you'll become jaded, everything will suck.....but eventually, you'll get over it. And then you'll meet someone else.
At 16, you've got a loooooooong ways to go, kiddo. Take your time. Don't be in such a hurry with the girls. They'll still be there as you get older.
I know that's easier said than done, but I went though it and I turned out okay. Well, I think so. I hope so! haha.
If it helps at all, the girls you know at 16 will likely be completely different by age 21. Those that aren't....well, if they're snitches now....
Maturity does a lot for both sexes.
Don't worry kiddo. Nice guys finish last, but they do finish.
~ a supposed nice guy
2007-03-21 19:55:08 · answer #2 · answered by sectumsempra_avada_kedavra 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are only 16? The only reason a woman likes a guy is because she wants to get married and have babies. Do you really want to meet a girl, get married, have babies, and support a family? I'm 34 years old. I don't want to do that right now. One of my best friends got married when he was 18. He got divorced last year. My parents are divorced too. Don't be fooled into believing that your life will be perfect if you meet a girl. Some relationships work, and others don't. The worst time to get married is when you are in your twenties. You are really too young to look after a family when you are that age. You probably don't want to get married. You probably just want to have a girlfriend and have fun. What guy doesn't want that? That isn't what girls want. Girls want commitment. They want to get married and start a family.
2007-03-22 00:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
They probably don't find you attractive, pretty much everyone finds themself attractive but that doesn't mean everyone else will! The biggest turn-off for most girls is a boring personality. You are also really short. Confidence is important also. If you are interesting and not a complete dork you will find at least some girls hitting on you- even if you look like Sloth.
2007-03-21 21:29:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Some probably already like you, but it's just hard to tell because you can't tell what their thinking. I'm 16 also btw and I would like someone like you. I guess you can pay a little more attention and try to talk or initiate the conversation first.
2007-03-21 20:06:43 · answer #5 · answered by Etania 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because a lot of girls don't generally like nice guys. Of course, the kinds that like mean guys typically aren't good relationship material anyway. Don't worry, you'll find one that'll really spin you around some day.
2007-03-21 19:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by This Is Me Being Grumpy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a great person, you are only 16, you have plenty of time to find the right girl. Girls at that age can be b!tches, just keep your head high.
2007-03-21 19:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because you seem like a nice guy, and a lot of girls (and women) gravitate toward "bad" boys. Stay the way you are and you will find a nice girl who appreciates you. You're still young.
2007-03-21 19:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by Donna T 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a really good looking guy to me...well hey let me tell ya something, some girls just don't understand a guy when they see one, because most girls at my school like the gangster guys (wich I don't)...well to make it easier...most girls like the bad boys. By the way I'm 13.
2007-03-21 19:46:26 · answer #9 · answered by ~○~Linkin_Park_Lover~○~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you Are a little stuck up. You don't seem to have any other faults and most people have one or two. Girls can tell when a guy is full of himself, try being a bit more humble. Extoll your virtues less and hers more. Give it a try.
2007-03-21 19:50:23 · answer #10 · answered by geminihearts25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋