If you know someone really likes you (in a relationshippy kind of way) but, although you fancy them, you don't want anything longterm from them, is it wrong to sleep with them? Even if they claim they're happy with that, knowing that it could never be anything more?
2007-03-21 12:36:45 · 18 answers · asked by spiralling 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I am sorry to say I think that it is becasue if u knwo they have feelings for you but they say they will accept the sex that is there way of getting next to you they think if they put it on you good enough you will eventually fall for them
2007-03-22 13:10:48 · answer #1 · answered by cora7391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the immortal words of Eddie Cantor, 'What does a guy gotta do to be liked around here?"
If you both know that it is a relationship of convience, there is every reason to continue the way things are. Friendship is a good basis to make that decision. However, things don't alway go forward to the comfort of all. Sometimes, someone wants out. That is what you need to plan for. What happens when someone needs to split up the dynamic duo? Discuss this and decide what to do and how to do it.
Having this out of the way and planned for, means everyone can stop looking over their shoulders, unless you like that sort of thing.
2007-03-21 19:54:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically it's not wrong because they should be honest enough to tell you that it's not enough for them. But at some point you have to have conscious & a heart. Anyone can get laid but it takes a special person to look out for another especially if there's no long term commitment.
2007-03-22 04:23:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!
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2007-03-21 19:47:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess so, sleeping with them should be based on a relationship, dont you think???
it would be more special,i mean you might be having fun like this, but as i said being in a relationship makes things more meaningful.....
2007-03-25 10:10:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not wrong. Hey maybe by sleeping with them you may end up wanting a relationship.
2007-03-21 19:43:33 · answer #6 · answered by sexymami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Wrong" is personal to you. Remember there is little stronger in life than love and people will often ask for things that are bad for them.
2007-03-21 19:49:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they no the score why not you only live once,if its fun your after and he knows that aint no harm i dont think.if your leading him on its a bit unfair but if you both no where you stand go for it i would..lol.x
2007-03-21 19:42:01 · answer #8 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not wrong when you both know that nothing else will happen.. but its unfair to both as it leads you two on into maybe liking them even more..
2007-03-21 19:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by 18/M/Scotland 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with that as long as he's ok with the arrangements.
2007-03-21 19:46:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋