Alright, here we go. My boyfriend and my friend (also male; hence forth called Friend "A") are at odds. My boyfriend would love to be friends with Friend A. Unfortunately, due to my past mistake, Friend A now despises my boyfriend. It happened a year ago, but the past still stings. I want them to be friends again, but Friend A despises us. How can I possibly make them be friends again? They used to be the best of friends. Friend A hates me too. Probably even more than my boyfriend. And it's not a simple matter of name calling. Friend A was my Best Friend and I had a crush on him for years. Then, he told me he wasn't romantically interested in me. So I talked to my boyfriend (he wasn't my boyfriend at the time), and Friend A grew jealous and told me he loved me. He called me up every day and dwelled and asked why I talked to my boyfriend (who wasn't my bf at the time) every single day and demanded an answer. I was hurting, and started dating my boyfriend, and now he despises us.
2007-03-21 12:34:41 · 8 answers · asked by cadence_lost 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I just want my boyfriend and Friend A to be happy, especially since they were such good friends.
2007-03-21 12:35:15 · update #1
Basically Friend A needs to grow-up. If he liked you, he shouldn't have said he didn't. He probably had it in his head that you would be there when he was good and ready to be your boyfriend. He's probably pissed that you didn't wait for him and jealous that your boyfriend is with you.
If you and your boyfriend are happy, just stay that way. I know Friend A was a good friend, but he needs to get over himself. If he really values your friendship, and is mature enough to realize he's being a d*ck, you guys' friendship might come back around, just give it time.
I hope this helped, I could be wrong, but that's what it sounds like to me.
Good Luck.
2007-03-29 11:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Morris M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if Friend A wants nothing to do with you or your BF then why waste the effort to bring them back together? Look at it this way, people change and if is not will to accept what is instead of what was, do you really want him as a friend? Just let it go.
2007-03-21 19:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by MayerDave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
seems like a severe case of jealousy n commitment issues
2007-03-29 02:54:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make them fight each other, once its over they will be friends, its the cave man theory (patent pending)
2007-03-21 19:37:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
alright here we go; if they really want to be friends again it is totally up to them..
2007-03-29 18:58:19 · answer #5 · answered by Pooks 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find somthing in common
2007-03-21 19:41:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically forgive each other and not get jealously
2007-03-29 19:28:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am loosing my life!
2007-03-21 19:37:28 · answer #8 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋