2007-03-21 12:10:25 · 40 answers · asked by K C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Alot of people do stupid things when they have too much to drink and if your wife is sorry for what she did and you can move on then learn to forgive your wife. Forgiving someone is sometimes a hard thing to do but you are married to the woman and I am sure that you still love each other. Everyone deserves a second chance. I do not believe in the saying-once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-03-21 12:18:30 · answer #1 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Big question with no instant answer! My first thought was that your relationship must be rather tenuous if she has strayed so easily. Are you sure that this happened? Has she admitted it? Is she sorry ? How you react depends entirely on whether you truly love this woman ... if you do, you have to give her another chance. Yes, it will be strained but so will divorce, doubly so. But talk to her, if the apologies flow, simply accept what has happened and stay together. Time will heal, perhaps not entirely, but you can make it work. And if this is just one mistake in your marriage, give her that one chance. Good luck,,,
2007-03-21 12:23:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi K.C
my advice for u is u should speak 2 her and ask y she did it?
and if u did anything wrong to make her run to another man arms??
try and not jump down her throat when she is telling u everything u do not want to hear!! and maybe everythiing will work out for ya!!!
so do not make any harsh descions on what to do anf have a gd hard look at ur wife and ask ur self can u still love her after she has told u everthing!!
gd luck
2007-03-21 12:20:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a zero tolerance to such things as one night stands, affairs outside the relationship etc etc, so my answer is to get rid...straight off. My argument is that, once some one does this the one time--they could possibly do it again given half the chance...or a few drinks.
2007-03-21 21:16:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does everyone say leave her ?
Dont you know the power of sexual attraction? You think it ends with only person . We are not children. Work out your feelings over this and maybe you will find a way to rejuvinate your sex life.. after all a satisfied woman is not likely to stray so easily. You never know, where thisd could lead:
she might let you watch next time !!
2007-03-21 12:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by yes brasil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A few drinks is an excuse, you need to find out why it happened. It may not have meant anything re who it was but it sure is a sign that all isn't well in your relationship, if it was it wouldn't have happened. Doesn't matter how drunk I got I wouldn't let someone sleep with me, I'm married! If she can't be honest with you, you will never recover from this as a couple.
2007-03-21 12:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself the same question. If your wife found out that you'd had a one night stand, what would your advice to her be?
2007-03-21 12:16:40 · answer #7 · answered by hollyb20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her. Betrayal is the deal buster in a marriage, and unlikely you'll ever bet past the visual of her getting pronged by another guy... ain't gonna happen.
2007-03-21 12:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let's see ,your wife,F U C K E D another man and your not sure what to do? Is,it really possible my our that whipped ,if a friend told you this story what would you tell him to do? that's right now grow a pair and do what you know is right.
2015-07-09 08:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by Tom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A few drinks is no excuse find a good attorney and say goodbye
2007-03-21 12:18:08 · answer #10 · answered by miester44 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋