i have been seeing her for about 6 years and she has left me about 5 times 4 times for the same guy and now this new guy she says shes gonna marry and she has only known him for 3 weeks every time she comes back she says she is so sorry and she doesnt know why she keeps doing it she tells me i am a really good guy and she will never do it again i just feel like there is no one else in the world that can make me feel the way she does when we are together what do i do? is she gonna grow out of it or not shes 22?
2007-03-21 11:53:23 · 14 answers · asked by Stump 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
even at 22 years old she should know how much this hurts you. if this girl really loved you she would not put you through this much. all i can tell you is try to move on and don't take her back anymore. this will just keep on happening if you let it. you don't want to be that guy who everyone knows is a push over and if you keep letting her leave you and then come right back that is what you are gonna be.
please try to find a new girl who is OK with being with you for a long time and IF she does leave, she leaves for good so you can move on with your life.
2007-03-21 11:59:52 · answer #1 · answered by play hard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you gonna wake up or not is the question? You can't keep letting her treat you like a yo-yo. Either she wants you or she doesn't. There must be some reason why she kept running back to the same man. There is somebody for everybody, and you need to get out there and find the somebody that's meant for you. Life is too short to be in love with somebody that isn't in love with you. If she loved you she wouldn't keep leaving you.
2007-03-21 12:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by Hoping he will bless me with #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has been going on for 6 years? The pattern is set, she is 'trouble'. She knows why she keeps coming back - she knows you are weak for her and you will take her back over and over again. So, she uses you for when she needs a guy, and then when she finds another dude, she takes off again. Stop being her doormat. Get away from her, she will only bring you misery. This isn't love.
2007-03-21 12:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pass on. He has to opt to get help for himself. precise now he's being led by using the drugs and ingesting and is not himself. There are too many relatively great men obtainable and you're youthful adequate to make the attempt to locate one which will manage you techniques you should be taken care of. you have given him 7 years of your existence. he won't replace persevering with the way he's. the ideal element you ought to do could be to stay removed from him for a jointly as, see what else is obtainable, have him see what this is opt to do with out you and then after being aside for a jointly as, like 6 months to a year, see the way you sense then. do not deliver a newborn INTO this form of relationship!!!!
2016-11-27 20:36:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please run away from her. I had this happen with my ex-boyfriend he would break up with me and go be with other girls and then come running back saying how he made the biggest mistake ever and I would keep dating him. This was a bad idea because how was I going ot trust him when he could easily be dating someone else so I left him. Yes it was hard but it will be better in the end, you shouldn't have to be her back up man.
2007-03-21 12:01:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jessica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it but run. same kind of thing went on in my first marriage. She went as far as bringing a different guy's truck home!!!( That should have been the first clue silly me) i felt the same way but now I'm with someone that respects me. It isn't a phase.
2007-03-21 12:01:21 · answer #6 · answered by oilman03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to say it but if she has done it more than once its obviously a problem for her. You know that say once a cheater always a cheater. But perhaps if you stop taking her back so easily put your foot donw have respect for yourself. Maybe it will scare her enough to realise you wont always take her back and that there are consequences to those actions.
2007-03-21 12:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, make sure she catches you in bed with 3 hotties. Lets see how that makes her feel. Pay her back man!
2007-03-21 12:00:05 · answer #8 · answered by Joe B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best to just let her go you dont need all the drama and heartbreak, and you need to give yourself time to get totally over her and move on, if someone truly loves you they wouldnt play the games she plays with you....
2007-03-21 14:43:37 · answer #9 · answered by Renee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve it if you keep letting her back. Get a life.
2007-03-21 14:38:45 · answer #10 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋