girls are to confusing?!?

Question

one day they act like they love you, another they ignore you, then they so you dnt talk to them and they get mad for tht, then so you do and they might be nice and idk evn kno what they want
i have a particular girl in mind and we/ve tried goin out but it didnt work then tried a few months later w/ the same results and some times she gets really amd at me for nothing so i stop talkin top her and then she flips out for that, then we became like best friends again i asked her out (cuz i messed it up b4) but she said no basically tht she never would and now shes sometiems rly nice and othertimes mean and ignores me
also we used to hang out but now she lies just to hav an excuse not to and last weekend she called me nd said she had somethin important to tell me so wen i asked her, she said she was drunk and then just hung up, but this week she has been nice so now i hav no clue wat i want
like i kinda want to just say we shouldnt be friends cuz it just gonna break my heart but im scared to

u r wicked mean shes not a bad person u dnt understand obviously and you shouldnt talk shi* bout people u dnt fuckn know

Answer 1

That's how we are, maybe she just wants your attention, but first be friends that's all and then after a few weeks or months if she is the same way, just stop talking to her, she will get the idea when you don't. But most times they do it to have more attention from the guy she likes.

Answer 2

You 2 are both clueless, so you need someone that has their head in the game dude. Or else wander around aimlessly. Honestly, get your stuff straight. Why bother with a clueless girl anyway? And if she's the playing around-haha I'm so cute but really stupid type-why even bother? Find a girl with a damn head on her shoulders. Good luck ~N

LOL if being honest equates to cruelty, then yes. Just trying to warn you about a girl that will mess with you on purpose. I have seen too many guys taken advantage of, so just be careful. Or not, it's your choice. Sorry bro, ~N