look i really dont like being by myself but i cant stand the 2 people i hang with. i feel i have no other choice. of course i have plenty of friends plenty of friends but they come in lunch later than i do. when they come i leave (u get the point). we've had situations and their mom told them not to assotiate with me anymore. ( i didnt do anything) when they told me that it really hurt my feelings. what should i do?????
2007-03-21 11:27:44 · 11 answers · asked by bestsaxplaya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't fret.... there are plenty of friends to go around for everyone. maybe make some new ones? perhaps someone who seems lonely and could use a friend? the best way to make friends is to be one first. be one and make someone's day! you'll both be two happy campers with something to talk about!
2007-03-21 11:35:05 · answer #1 · answered by blueskies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of there, if their not helping you their hurting you (--a friend is a companian that is loving all the time--) i was in a simular situation your in and i know how it can be. your situation is unique in that thier the only option at lunch time. without knowing the full details, if its to the point where parents get involved, and your really not cool with those two friends anyway, id say keep it business, wich means sit with them and all if you really need to, but dont force yourself to be close friends, like dont tell them secrets or your plans for the day and stuff just smile eat and leave. or even hang out with a diffrent crowd at lunch (easier said than done i know) but it would deffinatly be better than the alternitive.... them. hope that helps
2007-03-21 18:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by answeraway 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you speak with the mothers - There must have been some kind of miscommunication to make them believe you did something in poor judgment and tell your friends that they cannot hang out with you anymore.
I am not sure what to tell you about the first part... if you can't stand them, why not find some other folks to hang out with?
2007-03-21 18:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by abayifo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on and find some worthwhile friends, find some people that bring out the best in you or at least makes you feel good about yourself being with them, that is what friends do, they build each other up. Good luck
2007-03-21 18:34:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pour your feelings into your music......Make that sax cry the hurt you feel.
Sit in a window that overlooks the city and wail away.
2007-03-21 18:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by Ronatnyu 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump them and try to find friends who really like you for you
2007-03-21 18:39:51 · answer #6 · answered by Molly J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them point blank. Your mother told you she didn't want you to associate with me any more. I think it would be best for all concerned if we respected her wishes.
2007-03-21 18:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
drop them!! If they don treat u right then just let them be snobs. If they dont care enough to be your friend then stop being theres.
2007-03-21 18:37:27 · answer #8 · answered by slow_dancing_in_the_rain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find a new crowed to hang out with. and just be happy.
2007-03-21 18:31:01 · answer #9 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not hang around people you do not care for. do not be pushy but try to get to know other people. be friendly. be nice. and you will make friends. good luck
2007-03-21 18:32:36 · answer #10 · answered by little bit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋