If you do indeed think this way, but don't deliver on the goods, what other feelings or insecurities do you have?
2007-03-21 11:24:31 · 13 answers · asked by It's Me 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sex is part of the relationship for most people, so without a happy sex life, how can you say you have a happy relationship. SO................YES!!!
2007-03-21 11:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that both us should want to keep each other happy. I do the things he likes and he does the stuff I like. sometimes we each get to lay back while the other person does all the work. We both give equal parts in the bedroom.
Insecurities? Sometimes I get insecure about my boobs cause they're only a B cup, but a Wonderbra fixes that little problem and I quickly get over it.
2007-03-21 18:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is a couples job to keep each other happy in the bedroom. we have fun and will say and do anything just about. id rather have my husband happy so i dont worry about any women getting his attention. im not the least bit insecure. we are both lucky to have each other in and out of the bedroom.
2007-03-21 18:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by iwill 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i believe it is a two way street.... I have needs that you need to meet as well as you do..... It should not always be keeping him happy.... That is part of the reason marriages are always failing.... learn that your wife have feelings and needs and just maybe you can buy a year or two of bliss ful marriage.... Woman do the same.... men have wants needs and desires... you have to learn when to bring the bitc@ out and when to put her away.... She sometimes is the reason our marriages are gone from day one... you can not make a man love you and you can not force a man to stay with you
2007-03-21 18:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Shonda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the phrasing of this question doesn't quite satisfy me. I believe it's important to make both partners' satisfaction a priority.
That means being willing to try new things, for example, but also not pushing someone to do things they really aren't comfortable with. Like someone else said, it's a two-way street.
2007-03-21 18:43:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest I hope I make/keep my husband happy in all aspects of his life. Not because I am insecure but because I love him and want him to be happy.
2007-03-21 18:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by slow thinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't agree with you my friend, to be happy is not just in bed, but feelings itself. Sex is part of a relationship but it doesn't have to be just there. But what about men, do they need to make us happy in bed as well, and what if your spouse or partner does not know how to make you happy in bed, what then??
I bet you if men read my respond they will mark it as a "bad answer" so my answer will be hidden,won't it??
2007-03-21 18:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by islandgirl06 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you keep your hubby happy in the bedroom, then you actually keep yourself happy. Sex is a wonderful gift to give to one another.
2007-03-21 18:28:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't NEED to keep him happy, WE need to be happy which we are. It is not one person's responsibility to keep the other happy. Have you ever considered that if your not satisfied that it might be your fault? (The guy's) Got problems in bed, it ain't always the woman's fault.
I don't have any insecurities. :D
Have a great night!
2007-03-21 18:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. K 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I feel like a woman DEFINATELY should keep her man happy but they don't and thats why it's SOOOO easy for me to hook up with married men
2007-03-21 19:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋