My sister is 13. She had a few friends over for a sleepover one night [about 5 other girls] and they were down in the basement where we normally have our parties. My computer is down there, and i went down to get it, and i noticed they were all in one room with the door closed, giggling and making weird noises. I opened the door and there she was, with her 5 other friends, and about 3 or 4 guys abou ttheir same age, all having this huge freaking orgy in there, more graphic than anything i could have imagined! as i said, THEYRE 13. 7th grade!!!!!!!!! i lost my virginity when i was 16 and i regret it! [im 17] what should i do? do i tell my parents? call the police? im so confused! [i think the guys got in through the garage] please please help me!!!!!
2007-03-21 11:13:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
First of all tell your parents asap. The same thing happened to me minus the orgy part as a caught my 14 yr old brother in the same situation. His son is now 2 and its hard to watch him raise a child when he is a child himself. (i never told my parents, and yes they were frantic when they found out.) And also if your parents don't make her tell the names of all the people involved... So thats the first part of business. Secondly, has your sister ever taken sex-ed or has she ever been talked to about sex. Elementary school kids are growing up too fast and need to be informed about what i like to call "the rubber" before they even think about having sex. Third, talk to your sister and get the situation straight, asked if she used a condom, etc. (Personally in the case of my little brother i like to use the what the **** were you thinking technique. Very effective but i don't recomend it in this situation.)
Good luck!!
God Bless
2007-03-21 11:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♫♪2 kids+1 wife=magical♪♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 13 and i wouldnt be doing that in the first place! thats so dumb and shows u just cant wait to get with a guy and do it alone. if my sister did that and she was 13 i would ask her why she did it....and what her intention was..she may not say " to have sex " but she might just be concealing it when she answers u....u can tell when there is something a little more beyond her answer. if she says she just wanted to see what its like....go tell the parent. doesnt matter the answer...cuz if she wants to see what its like...she will also want to see what its like when she gets older. the sister may be mad at u and angry at u...dont feel bad about the anger...dont feel bad if she gets in trouble...its for her own good! if ur parents yell at her...dont feel bad....because just think about what wouod have happened if they didnt yell at her and get the point across or what would have happened if u didnt tell them at all! tell her parents...and she may not be happy with u... and maybe for years she may not be happy that u did that...and she may not see WHY u did it...but she will get over it. and she still may question why u told...and she will see when shes older..she may not see it until her 20s...but she will see it. and ur not being a tattletale btw. ur doing whats right. a tattletale tells on everything someone does just because they want everything right or they feel someone should know when really its not nescessary...THIS IS NESCESSARY.
i hope u do the right thing! =]
2007-03-21 12:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Teenager 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DAmn you need to tell your parents immediately. Dont even hesitate, shes 13 so its not an invasion of her privacy cause she probably doesnt even know what shes doing. Pull your mom aside, tell her its real important, explain calmly and tell her not to include you in the aftermath. just tell her to casually go down there with a key and quickly unlock the door so they have not excuse, maybe your little sis can get some help cause thats not normal.
2007-03-21 14:48:54 · answer #3 · answered by JUDAS RAGE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes yes.!!!Tell your parents. Then make her tell your parents and get all involved to go to the doctor and get aids tests. Even though it sounds dramatic it will prove a point and will embarrass the hell out of them and maybe it will be a good lesson. The whole bunch of them need all the help they can get. You sound like a good big sister do your duty and tell, tell, tell!
2007-03-21 11:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by sneetcher 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. At thirteen your sister is too young to make mature decisions, and very susceptible to peer pressure. Does she have access to protection? And whats with the guys? How old were they? That is very creepy, I would call the cops so that they don;t do this to other children.
2007-03-21 11:41:30 · answer #5 · answered by Laura H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im 13 and u should tell ur parents because i have a 16 year old friend doing the same thind since she was 13
2007-03-21 12:44:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents, your sister will be mad at you at first but she will get over it, and if you don't she might have more encounters that she will regret as well. As the big sister you need to protect her, and where are your parents when all this is going on?
2007-03-21 11:19:54 · answer #7 · answered by Ama A 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PARENTS NOW!!!! there could be A LOT of consequences to her doing that! i am 15 and have never even held a guys hand yet (waiting for the right guy :-) )!!! you need to tell your parents even if she is your sis and u dont want to rad on her. she'll thank you in the end! GO NOW!!!
2007-03-21 11:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sunshine 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
LOL!
You should tell all there parents and have them wear those pregnancy bellies for a day so they can learn a little of what it feels like to be pregnant and young.
2007-03-21 11:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by ~beauty~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your parents. You sister is ASKING for an STD or unplanned pregnancy. What is she thinking? She needs to be educated and your parents should be the ones doing the educating!
2007-03-21 11:29:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋