how do i know im lesbian or bi?

Question

i am attracted to most guys my age and no females. there are however females i am attracted to who are in their 20's.
am i lesbian?

Answer 1

Sweetie if you are attracted to women then it's just normal! Most girl's are because there are simply more attractive than us bloke's. Although I am a very good looking lad myself and I do see why girl's find some of us attractive, simply there are much more better looking women out there so just because your a female it does'nt mean you can't have the same fantasie's as us bloke's. Seriously I feel sorry for you women coz most men are idiot's anyway. Women are gorgeous full stop!!! It's a simplicity of life!! And there's nothing wrong with lesbian's. The more the better!!!! As long as we are allowed to watch ; ) he, he!

Answer 2

Sexual orientation and sexual identity are two different things. Orientation is who you're attracted to and identity refers to your feelings, thoughts and expression of self. I know this sounds iffy, but you can be attracted to the same sex without being homosexual. Everyone's drawn to certain people no matter the gender. You have to figure out for yourself who you fall in love with and the such. Sexuality is fluid and can change over a lifetime. Women can be more diverse in their orientation due to the less restricted gender roles. You could be bisexual now but feel more gay or straight later. Really it just depends on who you're comfortable with and want to be with long term. I hope this doesn't confuse you more!