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what should i tell her?????

she ran away from home and is staying at my house...my parents r out of town help

2007-03-21 10:37:13 · 22 answers · asked by Angelica L 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

22 answers

You need to sit her down and talk to her. Ask her if she is doing adult things (having sex) why then is she acting like a kid? It shows that she is way to young to be having sex. But if she's already done it, then ask her if she used protection. If she didn't does she know the risks? STD's, pregnancy. She's a minor. She doesn't have an education nor an opportunity at a job. Tell her that she needs to call her parents so that they know she is o.k. She needs to talk to them about everything. By phone it should be better in the sense that she can ask her parents to listen to her first. She should be honest as possible.To tell them how she feels and why she ran away. Hopefully this can get them to start talking. I know a 14 yr old girl who didn't like to be "bossed" around by her parents. She wanted to do things her way and she thought she was old enough. Now she is pregnant and won't go to school because she doesn't want to face the other kids there. Now she will have to face a lot more with a child. I wish you guys the best of luck.

2007-03-21 12:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by rencar32002 4 · 1 0

Well the dilemma is her having intercourse with boys means too ancient.And additionally that she should not be having intercourse in any respect at eleven years ancient or also have a boyfriend .I feel you must inform her mother and do not think unhealthy approximately it your serving to her.Because the direction your pal is happening isn't an excessively well one.She's strategy to younger to manage the duties,feelings & result's that include intercourse.If she does not wish to be your pal anymore no less than you understand you probably did the correct factor.But if she's shrewd she's going to notice what she's doing and be pleased to have a pal such as you.

2016-09-05 11:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

She is 11!! U need 2 her parents!!She could be pregnant!!U should have someone take her somewhere 2 check to see if she is pregnant, and at the age of 11 she shouldn't even be thinking about that stuff!!!!!!!!!

2007-03-21 10:48:17 · answer #3 · answered by Paige C. 1 · 0 0

tell her the worst possible thing. even if it made up. like if she ever do it agin she will die or get pregnant. jk jk. just talk to her abouut it. tell her that even tho she already did it once it will be better if she waited. cuz if she keep on it wil get around and everybody wil call her a whore and boys will think she is easy and onli go out wit hur for sex. yep and hten she will get her heart brokend and have to see a therapist evry week. sound crazy but i no someone that that happend to..

goodluck!! =D

2007-03-24 15:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ok. Everyone is throwing this WAY out of proportion. She had sex. It's over and done with, saying how she has 'sinned' or whatever you crazy people say is not going to help. Tell her parents where she is. Why did she run away ? If she's pregnant her parents have to know. If not don't tell them. It's really quite simple.

2007-03-21 10:53:25 · answer #5 · answered by Jane ♥ 3 · 0 2

Call her parents and tell them she's having sex with a 15 year old. Then call the cops and have her thrown in Juvie.

2007-03-21 12:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

and this is exactly what's wrong with kids these days

tell her to get some self-respect before she ends up on a street corner or in an alley
if she doesn't respond, drag her *** back to her parents house, or just kick her out

2007-03-21 11:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Go Blue 6 · 0 0

you need to tell her to go back home and that her parents love her. if that doesn't work call her parents secretly to come and get her she may hate you at first but it will all work out in the end.

2007-03-21 12:05:47 · answer #8 · answered by N E G R O P L E A S E 3 · 0 0

Tell her that it's her fault for having sex in the first place and tell her parents.

2007-03-21 13:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by nmyuiop123 2 · 0 0

at age 11 that girl needs to go home!! you should really tell an adult about this.

2007-03-21 10:43:45 · answer #10 · answered by got all I need 5 · 3 0

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