i have this friend he is so obsessed with porn and sex that everytime i call him he's either at a horehouse or at a netcafe i have tried getting him a girlfriend and so i did but it lasted 2 days reason was that he had a great sexual appeal and had asked her to be in bed on the 2nd date what should i do to fix this poor horny guy i want him to live gooood..yahoo ppl please
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2007-03-21 10:31:37 · 12 answers · asked by fist_0f_g0d 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sex addiction is a good thing. Just let him do his thing. Someday he'll get petered out and then he'll have time to play with you.
2007-03-21 10:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I had a bf like this - it was great because we both knew that it was all about s ex. If you hook him up again - make sure that you tell the girl what he is all about. Perhaps a sexy older woman is just what he needs - no strings just pure s ex.
The thing with porn is that it can become addictive behaviour if not kept in check. Encourage him to take up a sport - especially ones where there are lots of women around - ie swimming.
Sport and exercise are a great distraction for sexual tension.
Good luck
BTW - how old is he?
2007-03-21 17:38:20 · answer #2 · answered by Ella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the guy is hooked on porn then there's nothing you can do ,,,, It's what he's obsessed with and wants to do ,,,, There's nothing you can do or say to change that what so ever ,,,, You have to realize that to get help you have to want it ,,,, Once you want it then you are more receptive to the cure ,,,, If he's not at the stage where he wants to change then you are out of luck ,,,, If you still want to be his friend then just except it and live with it ,,,, Keep pestering him about it and he just might tell you to F O ,,,,,
2007-03-21 20:50:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone is truly obsessed with sex, they need psychological help. This sounds like more than you can provide, unless you are qualified in that area.
You may want to refer him to a local chapter of Sex & Love Addicts in the meantime.
You are helping him by being supportive and a good sounding board for his problems. That's all a good friend can ask for. Good for you.
2007-03-21 17:38:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
oh gosh, looks like your friend wants it all the time! well, you cannot do much in such a case except try to tell him the hazards. If that doesn't help, what the heck. Join the party and have fun :-P
2007-03-21 17:39:44 · answer #5 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe find him a good hoochie instead of a stick in the mud.
Birds of a feather...know what I mean?
2007-03-21 17:39:35 · answer #6 · answered by Papa Mac DaddyJoe 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
He has problems! Teach him not to do that anymore! Thats so wrong!
He needs psychological help.
2007-03-21 17:35:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you cannot help someone who doesn't want to be helped. yet u can be honest with him about what u see in him. good luck!
2007-03-21 17:38:57 · answer #8 · answered by airgemm 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, what he said. Ha Ha Ha
2007-03-21 17:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
http://www.sa.org
the guy is a sex addict. he needs help.
2007-03-21 17:36:29 · answer #10 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋