I just wanted to know...I am a 16 year old gay guy and havent found anyone yet is this normal? when did you find your partner? Any suggestions?
2007-03-21 10:17:39 · 14 answers · asked by I Smoke Cigarettes 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sorry I meant, "when did you find your first partner?"
sorry for the mis-spelling...
2007-03-21 10:18:47 · update #1
There is no such thing as 'normal' in this subject. Everyone is different. You will find someone when the time is right, trust me.
2007-03-21 10:21:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I was 15 years old In high school i hung out with the gay/lesbian croud and My first partner was a chick i rode the bus with then after her was one of her friends. So my first was in High School.
And about suggestions I just say look around at school bc you're not old enough for clubs or nothing Im sure finding the group in school should be rather easy mainly bc someone is always making fun of one. Good luck
2007-03-21 17:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had some issues to deal with first and when I was finally ready to start dating men I didn't find a man until a year or so later. I could have had a boyfriend faster... I guess... maybe if I was actually out there trying... but I didn't know how to go about it especially where I'm from (middle of freaking nowhere).
2007-03-21 18:37:26 · answer #3 · answered by Bill 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you mean sex partner, I would think about 17- for a guy. The girls were on me like white on rice, I have no idea why. As far as a real partner-partner.... not until 23
2007-03-21 17:23:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found my first "partner" at about 16. You should start your own 360 page, there are hundreds of gay teens there and you might find someone that way?
2007-03-21 17:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by not4u2c_yet 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I met my first partner a week before my 19th birthday and we were together for 4 years. I rushed into things and regret wasting those 4 years of my life. Wait until the right guy comes along, don’t make the same mistake I made.
2007-03-22 11:03:37 · answer #6 · answered by MrCute 5 · 8⤊ 0⤋
Your young live the single life for a while. I didnt find my first true partner till i was 19 and we were together for year and a half (long story) now w/ my new one for almost two. Dont rush anything.
2007-03-21 18:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Prometheus Cowboy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I became sexually active at 15. But that was straight sex. I am still a gay sex virgin and glad to remain that way. If I had the choice to have avoided sex longer than I did I would have. I think that can go across the board. Just because you are not actively dating don't worry about it. Focus on your education and establishing yourself before you worry about a mate/partner/whatever you want to call it.
2007-03-21 17:24:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There is no "normal" time to find your first partner, and at your age I would still give it more time. You network and meet people and you will find someone or two that you might want to date.
Good luck.
2007-03-21 18:21:20 · answer #9 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're still young,a lot of 16 year olds haven't found anyone yet.Hang out with your friends and have fun.Don't look to hard,or get stressed about it.Good things come to those who wait!
2007-03-21 17:21:12 · answer #10 · answered by the dreamy blonde 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-21 18:20:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋