people at my school think im gay because i hang out with girls alot and i no im not gay but i try to ingore and they just keep saying stuff. It dosent really hurt me but its ingoring. what should i do
2007-03-21 10:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Punch the next guy who says it in the face.
Most people will say that fighting doesn't solve anything, but in this case it's your best bet. The principals and the superintendants and all the "authorities" always talk about condemning violence and bullying but then they never do anything substantial about it and wonder why we have violence in our schools.
The quickest way to silence a bully is a bloody nose.
2007-03-21 10:25:05 · answer #1 · answered by BOOM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignorant minded people like to make assumptions and point fingers. When you go against the grain, you are the easiest target. But don't worry... think of it this way... if they are talking about you, they are leaving someone else alone.
If it doesn't bother you, let it roll off. Be the bigger person and enjoy your life and hang out with the girls. I am gay, but a very good friend of mine is straight and he is in the same boat as you. But... he is completely comfortable with this sexuality and just prefers the company of females over that off the common sports watching, beer guzzling alpha-male.
2007-03-21 17:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by Brandon M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you shouldn't care what others think of you rather you're gay or straight. And if it's really bothering you ask a girl out get a girlfriend, and if they still do it then hit the hell out of them or talk to them about it find out why they think you're gay. I mean when I was in High School saying stuff about me I hit them. But you seem like a person who would talk about problems so do what your heart tells you. If it tells you find out why then do it, if it says hit them then do it, and if it says get a girl then get a girl. Good luck
2007-03-21 10:29:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haha man i have the same problem and the answer is simple you are either emo and thats not a bad thing or your lucky. Im both. Most of my friends are girls , im not gay. But i am open to the feelings of others and thats why alot of girls befriend me. It only means you have acended to a higher level of manhood and are a more conective human being. But yeah you should get a Girlfriend.
2007-03-21 11:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kids just want to find something and/or someone to talk about. If you show them it bothers you they will just continue. Just be you and be friends with whoever you choose.
You know a lot of people THINK I'm straight, but I'm not. When they find out I'm a lesbian, they say, you didn't "seem" or "look" like you are gay. So it happens on both ends, although I think yours may be more hurtful.
2007-03-21 11:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by ☮ wickey wow wow ♀♀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell them that you arent gay and that you hang out with the girls because they are your friends
you have a right to hangout with any1 you want with out being called things.....my friend went through this and what he did was said flat out "i'm not gay" and then he just walked away from them. If they are calling you things then they are probably homophobic and really stupid
p.s. having alot of girls as friends is better it means your lucky and that you have something that girls like....those kids are probably just jelouse of you for having all these girls hangout with you and not them
2007-03-21 10:40:10 · answer #6 · answered by blair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember a lot of times they are just jealous of the fact that you can hang out with girls while they cannot. So let them say whatever, as long as you know what you are and how you can keep your women happy.
2007-03-21 10:21:08 · answer #7 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a girlfriend and then they might not think so bad of you. If not, hang out with the boys a bit more and do boy stuff to prove your not. But then, letting it get to you may make them think you are gay even more, so otherwise, try not to let it get to you, as surely you wont care if you already know you arent. If things get out of hand, report them.
2007-03-21 10:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Watch last weeks episode of ABCs "Wedding Bells". A dude had the same problem, got married, lived happily ever after. It's a great episode. Enjoy and let people think what they want...you know who you are and that's most important.
2007-03-21 11:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by IMHO (In My Humble Opinion) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep hanging out with the girls. They are probably just jealous cause you are the one that is hanging out with all the girls, and they are not.
2007-03-21 10:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Kari R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋