What to do when people come to you when you don't need them?

Question

Is it funny that when you are alone and you are in need of attention no one wants to be with you, but when you have anything you need and you feel full everybody wants to be with you, but I feel I don't need those people because they weren't in my life when I most needed them?

Answer 1

Not funny if you think about it, really.

I mean, when you are in need of attention, you most likely appear needy, or carry yourself in a not-so-confident way. That is generally a turn-off to most people.

When you have what you need and you feel content, you most likely then carry yourself in a confident and happy way. This is attractive to others.

A person's demeanor says a lot and, in my opinion, greatly affects how others percieve you.

Answer 2

Sometimes, people desire to just beleft alone.It is good to be alone sometimes, this time included.
Just, politely let people know you want to be by yourself. If you say it calmly enough, they will respect you without incident. If you say it too gruff, they might take offense and try to argue with you.

Good luck Hon.