Who could be my baby daddy?

Question

As of today March 21st the doctor states that I am 27 weeks old. They are going by my LMS which was Sept. 14th 2006 and only lasted for about 1 day and half. My normal cycles are 3 days long and I did not notify my doctor about this. The cycle before was on Aug. 20th. I slept with different men and I am confused on who could be the farther of my child. By pointing out the dates of conception I could really buckle things down. The following days are dates with each partner. Aug. 31st 2006, Sept. 2nd, 9th, 11-12th (intercourse before cycle) Sept 18-20th, 23rd (intercourse after cycle). This is where I am confused about my conception. The day that I found out I was pregnant I have been worried ever since. Could you please help me crack this issue down.

Answer 1

When are these women going to learn how to keep their legs closed?? Don't you know that there is more out there than just pregnancy. If you are sleeping around you will have more problems such as HIV, which is 100 times worse than not knowing who your babies daddy is. Why don't you call Jerry springer or Maurie, they can help you figure out your drama with a DNA test.

Answer 2

It is impossible to know, because your LMP was not a normal one. Maybe that wasn't even a real period, but implantation bleeding from the event of Aug 31. Or it was a period, and you conceived from the event of Sept 23.
It's WAY too late for an ultrasound for dating. That really has to be done between 7 and 12 weeks to be very reliable.
Depending on whether you want any of these men to contribute financially (and thereby also have access to the child, as a father) you will have to decide whether you want to get paternity tests after the baby is born.
Or you could avoid the whole father dilemma and do this on your own. If you are not involved with these men anymore anyway, why would you want to co-parent with either of them?
Or, you could put the baby up for adoption.

Answer 3

Well its amazing to me that you are careful enough to know the exact dates you slept with these various men nearly 7 months ago! Maybe you wrote these down or something. Makes me wonder how you could be so careful as to take note of when you get some but not bother to use any form of protection??

Also, there is no possible way to tell whose baby it is, since you slept with Man A and Man B just two days apart from each other. Could be either one.

My money is on Man C, however, because you said you slept with him (Sept 18-20), which was after your last menstrual cycle on Sept. 14. HOWEVER, its not clear that this was a true cycle and not just "implantation bleeding" from a pregnancy earlier in the month.

So in other words, do a DNA test for sure once the baby is born. Otherwise, you may be misleading someone about who the baby's daddy is.

Answer 4

My periods were Feb 24 and suppose to be Mar 21.My Feb 24 was also only one day long,but my doctor said that regardless of how short it was, if I had medium to heavy blood, I was not pregnant then.I didn't ovulate until 14 days later (about Mar 9).Based upon the info that I got, I would believe that you probably ovulated on Sept 28.Sperm lives in the body for up to 5 days.So,you had sex on Sept 23, the sperm lived five days, and you conceived on Sept 28.Whoever you slept with September 28 is the dad.

Answer 5

Ok as of today I'm 25 weeks pregnant which would go off of my LMP on September Sept. 29, 2006. I know the date of conception to be the 12 or 13th of October. Going off of what I am I would say that you probably conceieved 2 weeks before me so that would put you roughly around September 28th to October 2nd. I hope this helps at least narrow it down to a week, if not should take it as a lesson learned use protection.

Answer 6

Ok here we go:

You can concive 12-14 days into your cycle, BUT sperm can stay inside you for 3 days, so go back to the last period you had before you found out you were pregnant, count to the ninth day (starting when you got your period) the man you slept with around that time is the father, if both fall close to the dates into your cycle go get a dna test... and i hope you learnt your lesson.

Answer 7

Well I was told by my Dr. that you ovulate 7-10 days after the first day of you period and sperm can live in you up to 3-4 days, so if you had a period in Sept then it would most likely be his but of course that is not for sure, because it is absolutely possible to have a period while being pregnant, I know from experience I had mine for the 1st 4 months of pregnancy. Looks like you will have a lot of explaining to do if you want a father to be involved....Good luck...In future I sure hope you make wiser choices with your sexual affairs...

Answer 8

Guys, we're not here to judge. Let's try to stick to answering the question. the poor girl probably knows she's in a lot of trouble already so pls give her a break. Let the person who have not sinned cast the 1st stone.

emerald8, hope things turn out fine for you. With 13 weeks to go, you'll need to get all the stuff ready for the birth of your child.

Regardless of who the father is, the child is innocent and it belongs to you. You can right all the wrongs, if you give it all your love and support, for it to grow up happy and into a fine human being.

take care, & good luck

Answer 9

First day of last menstrual period: September 14, 2006
Estimated date of conception: Thursday, September 28, 2006
End of 1st trimester (12 weeks): Thursday, December 7, 2006
End of 2nd trimester (27 weeks): Thursday, March 22, 2007
Estimated Due Date: June 21, 2007
Hope this helps and good luck!
http://www.mybirthcare.com/calculator.asp

Remember sperm can live up to seven days inside you so even though you might have had sex on just say a monday you could have not gotten pregnant until thursday.

Answer 10

Only you should and can know the father of your baby.
Look like a pretty lost case to me. That's one of the main reason why women or girls should sleep with only one person.
Well I wish you my best. If that can help ,well focus more on the ones you slept after your cycle. Good luck

Answer 11

Well i have heard you take the day you start your period which for you would be sept 14th count that as day 1 then continue to count the days when you get to day 10 which for you would be sept 23rd that is when you become most fertile the 10th to the 14th day after your period so if this is correct which i believe it is your most fertile days would be sept 23rd to sept 27th hope this helps you but just remember its nice to have someone to share this experience with but most of all its going be amazing just sharing it with your beautiful baby enjoy your pregnancy and baby !!