im 13 and these girls at school are going around saying that i f*cked their cousin and got knocked up?! what should i do?! all these random ppl idk keep coming up to me and asking. i asked the girls why they are spreading that and they said cause i was a slut? is it possible to be a slut at 13? im not a virgin [which i lost to the girls cousin and we've been doing it since] but still am i a slut?!
2007-03-21 09:51:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Tell an advisor, and ignore them. :) Hope this helps!
God Bless!
2007-03-21 14:35:49 · answer #1 · answered by Apfel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to be a slut an any age. But I define a slut as a person who sleeps with lots of people. Basically a slut is the same thing as a ho. You're not a slut if you've only done it with one guy but I dont think you should be having sex at 13. You're gonna do it regardless of what I say but please use protection every time.
2007-03-21 09:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sweety the only thing that you are guilty of is getting in over your head. You're too young to be having sex. But tell them kids at school that if you're so pregnant then how comem your stomach isn't getting big? And why isn't the guy stepping up and saying anything? What you need to do is not deal with him anymore because if you are in a sexual relationship and he can't even respect you enough to defend you then you don't need to be wastin your goodness on him. Whatever you do, just don't be like me, I'm 18 years old and I've had 6 sex partners, just don't let it get that far. I don't regret anything i've done, but i would hate for someone so young to go down that path and I know i may not be that much older than u but remember the old saying, warning comes before destruction
2007-03-21 09:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
One you are to young to be having sex.
Two the girls are just being children... it happens.
People will see that they are lying once you don't start to grow or leave school. If someone asks about it tell them the truth.
If things get out of hand talk to the teachers/ your parents and they may be able to help you out.
In the mean time don't let it get to you. You know it is a lie and soon others will find out they are liars. They will do it as long as they get a reaction from you so it is best just to ignore them.
Unless you are having sex with alot of different people you are not a ****.
2007-03-21 10:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ PrincessLeia ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i lost my virginity at 13 and all the girls did that to me to even teachers i just ignore them things and people change just wait for high school they will be the sluts not you , and if you have only been with one or two people that is not a slut...
2007-03-21 09:57:20 · answer #5 · answered by Jessie S 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well if you lost it to the cousin of one of the girls they have every right to say the truth. However that doesn't make you a whore. Unless of course you've slept with a lot of other dudes besides him. Just ignore them. Take a test. Quit having sex and trying to grow up fast. What is wrong with you Ameircans now a days?
2007-03-21 12:02:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't worry what the other girls think of you. BUT you are way to young to be having sex!! 13?? Have you even gotten your period yet? I would just be careful how you act in the future b/c the last thing you want is those rumors to become true!
2007-03-21 09:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Heather 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Youre either a slut or a liar.
Id say more a slut. And you didnt do the cousin, the cousin did you. and at thirteen, the guy doesnt have a dick yet, so you must have played more with your fingers than with anything else.
by the way, your grammar is awful
2007-03-21 09:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
first of all you should know nothing about having sex right now and yes you are a slut for having sex with him. why would you do that to your self? it is demeaning.
2007-03-21 10:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by I Like It 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
-----Having sex with your wife is risky; having sex with anyone else is mental illness. Keep you pants on until you get married. ---Jim
2007-03-21 09:59:41 · answer #10 · answered by James M 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋