a boy crazy stage..
when girls first start having sex or messing around do they go through a period in their lives when they are for a lack of better description "loose"?
I hear all this girls talking about how they are good now but "oh when I was younger"
I've heard it so much that it makes me wonder, and beside I grew up remembering how some of the girls acted to me, like my neighbor down the street :)..
2007-03-21 09:27:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
girls sorry to say but I'm including the act of oral sex..
ever seen the movie clerks one.... remember that bj's are included
2007-03-21 09:51:44 · update #1
oh I've only slept with a few people but I've sucked off over 30 different guys.....that would constitue a sex act ... sorry :(
2007-03-21 09:52:55 · update #2
I went through a phase where all I wanted to do was conquor women and have them as mental trophies of achievment
2007-03-21 09:59:47 · update #3
Ivey... saying someone is loose most often describes behavior not a physical quality lol ...
young people crack me up :)
2007-03-21 10:58:55 · update #4
I went through that stage; I have to be honest and say I enjoyed it and at times when it didn't come to me I went hunting for it.
2007-03-21 10:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by Laela (Layla) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a very astute observation.
I suppose a lot of girls do go thru a "loose" phase - but we probably wouldn't know exactly how many - for most, this is something too personal (or too embarrassing) to own up to.
Okay, I will admit to mine. At first it was all in my head - you know, fantasies. I honestly don't remember when and why the fantasies turned to actualizations. Suffice to say, I was really messing around (not necessarily bedding them) with 1-2 other guys in addition to my regular bf (yup, all at the same time!) --- hmm, maybe over a period of 5 + yrs, on and off. I do have excellent time management skills now; after all, I did have a lot of practice! LOL So why did I do it? For one thing, I could get away with it (that alone was thrilling for me).
Did anybody else know? NOPE! I'd always been friendly and flirty so what they saw was just my natural self.
There, I've said it all.................
2007-03-21 16:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by Inday 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wild stage was drinking and going to clubs... No sex involved, most women I know have low numbers including me - some women go through a "loose" time in their life, sometimes this means they are searching for something they are not getting at home... Maybe love and affection, a lot of women wise up and respect their bodies and some never do - we are all different....
2007-03-21 16:46:29 · answer #3 · answered by M B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that most girls go through what I like to call a "ho phase". I went through one years ago for what reason I'm really not sure. I just wanted to have fun and things happened and I was ok with it. As far as being "loose" no, Most of the people I've slept with I have been comfortable enough with to actually talk about our sex lives and I've actually asked them before what they thought in that aspect. Being "loose" really comes from constant activity there. It doesn't matter how many times you do it, it matters how much time was in between them. Constant and vigorous activity can cause things to stretch. But most women don't experience this until they give birth to a child. Much of this expression is referring not to the actual physical aspect of the woman, but her attitude and easiness.
2007-03-21 17:42:25 · answer #4 · answered by Ivey 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think girls can go through a phase of feeling the full enormity of their feminine sexual power !!! Intoxicating really!!
I can distinctly remember some times it just felt good to realise that most guys can be led around by you know what and I had the power to do just that !!!! if I chose to !!!
Back in the bad old days !!
2007-03-22 04:46:04 · answer #5 · answered by ms.kissel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every individual is different, but it is fair to say that most young females go through a stage when they reach puberty & I guess you could call it boy crazy. My granny used to say "she's smellin herself" . Girls like to brag just like guys do & a lot of the things they say about what they did when they they were younger could be just that. Not all girls are little hoochies but the ones that were aren't going to tell you the truth about everything.
2007-03-21 20:04:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sandi Beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've only slept with 2 people. Not for religious reasons but because everyone else I met was lame. So, in your terminology, I suppose I've always been "tight".
2007-03-21 16:35:53 · answer #7 · answered by Winette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say MOST but not all... I have numerous friends that never went through this. They were brought up in very christian homes and are living proof that good people do exist !!
: )
2007-03-21 16:33:45 · answer #8 · answered by Kitty 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it is normal for girls to be boy crazy, but as far as loose, that is a matter of morality
2007-03-21 17:00:55 · answer #9 · answered by ragincajun1957 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, I wouldn't say most...some I suppose.
2007-03-21 16:34:06 · answer #10 · answered by wendy g 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋