My relationship has been crazy! I am 32 yrs.I have known this man for 14 yrs. we live together sleep together eat together, we are living as a couple. he won`t marry me he says we are just friends, should I stay or should i leave and start over? I have no children and very pretty, Do i deserve this treatment?
when I am trying to get married and have a baby,start my life.
2007-03-21 09:22:32 · 8 answers · asked by katana b 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You capture my heart
When I just hear you laugh
And though we are young
You're my missing half
When you're playing with children
And showing them love
You make my heart beat
Like your sent from above
You capture my heart
With your captivating beauty
And inspire me to make
Caring for you my duty
When you're walking, you move
With such style and grace
And I could study all day
Every line of your face
I'll search high and low
Until each other we find
But now for today
You exist in my mind
When we are apart
It's you I will miss
And long once again
To taste your sweet kiss
I'll embrace you so close
Each night and each day
But for now I will search
Till I find you .................Someday
I would like to chat on yahoo IM with any girl who likes my poem (or add me to your buddy list)
2007-03-21 09:25:47 · answer #1 · answered by dwsum41@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey, what were u doing for 14 years with him? You both have never talked about the future together? if so, u could ve known that he didnt have any plan to marry you. and you could've been clear of where this relationship was heading. You should ve talked this with him since 10 years ago. You have wasted your 14 years of youth. Now you hv to be out there again wondering when you'll find the right man... anyway think of this as a lesson for next relationship. Next time when u meet someone, make sure that your know where it'll be heading n he wants a serious relationship for marraige.
I'm sure you'll find a man who wants the same thing as you do. Good luck!
2007-03-21 21:27:01 · answer #2 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check with the state you are living in, there is a good chance you are already married. In some states the have what is called a "common law" marriage. This is when 2 people have lived and acted like a married couple for a certain length of time, usually 7 years, then in the eyes of the law, they are considered legally married. If your state does not have this, then leave him, if he will not commit to you and considers you only a friend, then you deserve better.
2007-03-21 16:27:19 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course you'll meet the right man to marry. Loads of people say this, and it sounds like a bunch of crap, but some time in your life, you're eyes will just happen to settle on a particular man, and you're breath will catch, he'll look back at you, and things will just "click." It's crazy, but true. As for your "friend," you're obviously not "just friends" if you live and sleep together. If he keeps insisting on that, it's time to move on. He's just holding you back and preventing you from starting a family and having a life.
2007-03-21 16:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by ThE bEcKsTeR 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have left him a long time ago. I would feel terrible after all that time and he says "we're just friends!". Get out now. Your time is ticking.........if you want a baby or a family. Get some self respect and some confidence and get out.
2007-03-21 16:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Felicia 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't deserve this treatment.He's using you as a little toy to just do all the fun stuff with so he doesn't have to take care of kids and do dirty work.
2007-03-21 16:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by hotstuff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah you need to leave his sorry a-- and get a Real man! that can please you in every way you need to be pleased! add me to Yahoo messenger i'm on till 130 am eve morning we'll chat
2007-03-21 16:27:26 · answer #7 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will meet the right man and you will get merrierd ,god will provide you with ,just prey about it
2007-03-21 16:26:20 · answer #8 · answered by michael d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋