anyone ever love their partner b/c their a great person but knew that they weren't right for you. in terms of personality? i spent 4yrs in a relationship which started in my early 20's. now i feel like a different person than i was then. i realize my bf isn't a good fit for me but feel guilty for all the years i lied to myself. the relationship doesn't feel right to me & when i think of marrying him i get pretty depressed. has this happened to anyone else?
2007-03-21 09:20:09 · 6 answers · asked by RedDevyl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thanks for all the great answers. i'm tired of my girfriends wondering why i am ending it since he's such a great guy. i try to explain that he is great, but he's just not the one for me.
2007-03-21 09:31:03 · update #1
YES..I am in the exact situation..All we are doing is wasting our time with one guy when the right one is out there somewhere. Your only prolonging the inevitable. i know its hard but the longer you wait the harder it will become for both of you.
2007-03-21 09:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I spent 10 years with a man whom I told myself I was in love with the whole time. I knew that because we had grown apart, we were just staying together because we were just use to each other. Two weeks after we split up I found out that he had a another girlfriend for over 6 weeks! Boy, am I ever glad that I didn't marry him! Life is so short. I am glad that I have now been able to start really enjoying it without being bound to a man that was NOT for me.
2007-03-21 16:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by brandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in the same exact situation. I had a 4 years relationship with this perfect guy, we were loving each other so much. But one day i fell out of love with him bcoz he was more like a best friend to me and i fell so afraid to marry him. So i told him my feelings. But i tried to work things out with him. It didn't work n we broke up. And then later on i met a new guy whom i believe that he's the ONE. But finally he dumped me saying that he can't marry me bcoz he has alot of aims and goals in his life. But now i regret all.. i shouldn't have ended a perfect relationship with my ex and ended up being dumped by another man whom i love so much. Now i'm getting older and i'm literally afraid of being alone. what if i can't find the ONE?
2007-03-21 21:18:19 · answer #3 · answered by rose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep! Going through it now and your so right boy is it depressing. Its sad when you see after all the time that you have invested in a relationship that the two of you are not right for each other! I am on my way out of this relationship i want to be happy for me for a change and not just be happy or pretend to be happy for us. GL
2007-03-21 16:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by cree4u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you love him, but now.. you just may have fallen out of love with him. it happens. it happened to me, for 6 years i was with someone and i just knew deep in my heart i wouldn't be happy with him. i loved him, and i still do, but i knew if i stayed with him it would only hurt us. it took both of us time to get over it, i am in a new relationship and he is actually engaged to another women.
you love him, but maybe not.. in love anymore
2007-03-21 16:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too short.. im sure you love him but if he isnt the right guy.. you need to move on.. until you find the right guy.
2007-03-21 17:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋