but he always want sex from me . what does it mean?
2007-03-21 09:06:00 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It means he's verbally and emotionally abusive. It means he suffers from lack of confidence and is afraid you'll leave him if he tells you just how beautiful and amazing he KNOWS you are. They'll say "I don't want you to get a big head". Its his way of keeping you down girl. He needs counseling.....before it gets worse. If you don't get help it WILL get worse. Trust me. Don't forget you ARE beautiful and attractive and dont allow someone who "claims" to love you to tell you any different. He's unhealthy. Don't let it change you. Tell him to get help or you're out of there. Seriously.
2007-03-21 09:13:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not attracted to you from the inside. Just because your good looking doesn't mean all of a sudden every guy falls in love with you and wants to marry you on the spot. He wants sex becuase he's attracted to you on the outside but not on the inside and being beautiful on the inside is way more important than being beautiful on the outside. He's using you, leave him!
2007-03-21 16:10:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he say that he doesn't find you attractive? It sounds like you are the insecure one. If he wants sex all of the time, there must be something that he finds attractive. But if he does tell you that, then you need to think long and hard as to whether you want to be married to someone like that.
2007-03-21 16:10:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he must find you attractive if he is always coming on to you for sex!
2007-03-21 16:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by blueblossom33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not that he doesn't find you attractive it's more like you have hurt him in some way and he lashes out with words and you take from them that he does not find you attractive. i can almost bet that if you took the time to write him a simple letter of how you feel (so that you don't have to face him and react to his facial and vocal reaction and he would have time to think about and deal with the issues on paper before talking to you) then you will have a man that knows how you feel and i believe would talk to you about it when he's had a moment to think it out!!! try it ... it works for me and my wife and we're going 20 strong.. good luck daddysr2003
2007-03-21 16:20:01 · answer #5 · answered by daddysr2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order for him to want to have sex with you then he has to find u some what attractive...
Have you talked to him about it?
If you are really feeling riskee, I suggest Pole dancing classes or a striptease. Let out your inner sexpot and work him. Show him that you are a force to reckon with....
Good Luck baby Gal
2007-03-21 16:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by ask n ye shall recieve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't find you attractive? Well, did you ever think that he fell in love with you because he is attracted to your personality? He may think you are witty, or that you have a beautiful heart. This is something you need to talk to him about. He married you for something.
2007-03-21 16:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by barefootcountrygal_25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
N what ways does he show you that he doesn't like you?, he should be beyond liking and loving you anyway.
I don't get it. He just wants to have sex with you and that is it.
So, he is not giving you no other time or attention, unless it is sex?
If so, you should be able to talk to him and express your feelings about it, since he is your husband.
2007-03-21 16:11:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ms Brown Eyez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL HAS HE TOLD YOU OUT RIGHT HE DOSE NOT LIKE YOU?? HOW LONG HAVE YOU BEEN MARRIED ?~~YOU DID NOT SAY. YOU AND HIM NEED TO TALK TO EACH OTHER. IF YOU LOVE HIM AND WHAT YOUR MARRIAGE TO LAST YOU TWO HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS. ASK HIM WHY HE FEELS THIS WAY? BUT YET HE WANTS SEX FROM YOU . YOU JUST CAN"T BE USED FOR SEX EITHER!! SO TALK TO HIM! MARRIAGE WORKS BOTH WAYS IT IS 50 -50 !! HOPE THIS HELPS YOU. BY THE WAY HAVING THE "GOD" IN YOUR LIFE SURE HELPS TOO!!!
2007-03-21 16:19:27 · answer #9 · answered by cindy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Weird question. Why did you marry such a loser?
Stopped being used like a ho and find a man that will love you and treat you the way that you deserve
2007-03-21 16:10:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋