What's the best way to Introduce a new baby to older child?

Question

I am expecting another child in may and I have a 2 1/2 year old. He knows all about Alyssa. That's what her name is gonna be. But, Im worried that he is gonna be Jealous of this new baby and act out or something. What's the best way to Introduce the two without any trouble? My son is very Unpredictable so there could be no problems but I still worry. What should I do to prepare him for the baby? Ive heard of getting a little present or something from the baby for the older child so he doesn't get jealous that she is getting all the attention. Please give me any ideas that you have. I need all the help I can get. Thanks Alot!!

Answer 1

Lock them in a closet together when the baby is crying.

Answer 2

My second daughter was born when my oldest was 19 months and things were not that bad. To prepare my oldest we read books and talked about it but I think she was a little young to understand. When I got home from the hospital we gave my oldest a new toy (Thomas Train) and told her it was from the baby. She did not care too much about having a new baby in the house, she was just happy to have Mommy home! ( I had a C-section so was in the hospital for 3 days) I think the hardest thing for her to get used to was that Mommy was not going to leave. I think she was scared because when I went into labour she went for her nap and My mom came over and then she did not see my for three days. She has never shown any signs of jealousy to her new sister. The baby is 5 month now and things have been great. Good luck and relax it's going to be easier then you think! The first couple of months are cery exhausting but you will be fine! Don't be afraid to ask for help! Good Luck

Answer 3

I was the same with my second child on the way we bought our 21/2 yr. old daughter her own baby in a carseat when we came home from the hospital and she was fine with the whole thing and when our 3rd child was born we just made sure we included the older 2 in on the care for the baby they each had a job one got the diapers one got the blankets and since they felt like they were a part of taking care of the baby all was well.. The toy or present will lose interest in a 2yr old just make sure you make him a part of the care for baby so he doesn't feel unimportant

Answer 4

Absolutely....overt displays of affection (gifts, treats, etc,)towards your 2 yr old are easily understood by them, it is a tangilble form of love in their mind. Be very honest and open about the development and progress of the baby also. Even though your little one is only 2, they can assimilate a lot more information than most people give them credit for. Let the child help in all areas of preparation for the new one (where appropriate), nursery, purchases....they will feel your excitment and feed off of that too. Good luck and enjoy!

Answer 5

he's unpredictable? you never know what he's going to do next? talk lots about the baby. read books about having a new baby with an older sibling. there are lots of children's books to choose from. get him involved as much as possible. when my brother was born,he "gave" me a present. that's up to you whether you do that or not. after the baby comes, spend special time with him. when the baby naps or let someone else take the baby. it doesn't have to be for long.

Answer 6

Definately get him a gift when the baby arrives. Allow him to try and be a part of the baby routine. Make him feel helpful.

He will get jealous it is inevitable. He may act out for your attention. Maybe while you are caring for the baby your husband could be paying attention to your son to keep a balance.

Answer 7

the present thing is a good idea. also let him get her a present and let him "help" as much as possible. getting the room ready and when the baby comes he can "help" get him involved as much as possible. spend time with just him everyday maybe when she naps. he will still probably be jealous somewhat especially at 2 1/2.
good luck and congratulations

Answer 8

I was in the same boat as you, my son was 2 years and 2 months when my girls was born. He accept it all the way and I include him in helping and he is protective of her. He doesn't want people looking at her and kiss her all the time. She is just 3 months old today and he still is not jealous at all. Please include him in changing the diaper and feeding and he will accept it. Please contact me and let me know how is goes or if you have any more questions.

Answer 9

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