Okay, my friend is really annoying. I've been trying very hard to ignore her, but she just keeps coming back. Now, I've gone to sit for lunch at a table that is far away from her every other day. For the days I'm not at that table, I sit with her and my other friends at our old table. My friends have taken the hint that they too can get away from her, and gone to sit at other tables too. Now, I told her I think I'm gonna sit at that other table every other day. The problem is, that when I told her this, she said: "cool, i think I'll sit over there with you. The only bad part is that I don't want her over there because:
1) Nobody there likes her
2) She always, and I mean always asks peoples for food
3) She eats with her mouth open!! How gross is that?!?
I don't know how I can shake her loose of my life and tell her just to get her own life. I need some suggestions that don't include cussing, violence, or being extremely mean.
Any suggestions would be appreciated! =)
2007-03-21 08:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by ..... 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What u need to do is to let her know how u feel, if u are a real friend such that u claim to be, then u shouldn't feel uncomfortable about telling her that certain things she does pisses u off. your role as her friend is not to stand by and let her make mistakes and not know she's making them, but to tell her when what she is doing is abaolute bullshit and that she needs to stop it. sit with her, explain in the most un -offensive way possible the things that she is doing to make u uncomfortable around her. if u talk to her maybe u will see that she didn't know that she was actually doing those things or that what she was doing was offensive.
2007-03-21 09:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by kamarla_phillips06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go on putting distance between you two, if you don't want to do anything drastic (by the way I think that's very nice of you). But maybe I would be adamant about not wanting her company, and making her respect you own space. Try to surround yourself with people you really like and that make you feel good, and she'll eventually disappear. Or change if she can (I feel a Little sorry for her, but she has to own up to her flaws).
2007-03-21 09:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Cali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have a problem (at home, or in her personal life) that makes her act this way. She may feel safe with you. Just ask her why she's always so clingy and see if she can ease off just a bit. Don't be rude, but just try to make her see how you're feeling about it.
Good luck!
2007-03-21 09:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cynical 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 10:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by lino 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that everyone needs a break from friends sometimes and that is why you would like to sit with others. Familiarity breeds contempt, it's an old saying.
2007-03-21 09:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Maria b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just be honest and talk to her about the things that are bothering you, maybe she is not aware of how she comes across to others, I don't think you really want to hurt her do you?
This could be you one day being the person left out.
2007-03-21 09:07:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah just tell her how u feel and don't make her cry just be like
i don't think u should sit with me anymore cuz i promised these people i would sit with them 4 the rest of the year lie 2 her but don't be mean 2 her and if u r means she will suspect somethin's up!!!!!
2007-03-21 09:18:40 · answer #7 · answered by PrettyLittleLiar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋