There's this lad I really like. He has liked me before but I didn't like him at the time. Then he went out with my best friend. (split up now) He's really nice to talk to but now that I like him he doesn't like me. My friend has asked him and he said I'm too much of a friend. I'm confused though because he looks at me quite often (in a funny way) so I don't know what to do. He's like my best friend but I have tried so hard to get over him but I can't. I need to know something I can physically do. Anything. Please :( Thanks!
2007-03-21 08:55:07 · 12 answers · asked by ♥frodo_covcity♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No I'm not Irish I'm English. What makes you ask?
2007-03-22 05:36:17 · update #1
sounds to me like he is scared of getting hurt again, my advice tell him how you feel straight as it comes from the tongue, you proved you can still be friends after you knocked him back, the time for you now is right as love has blossomed from friendship, dont miss the boat, just ask him yourself.... at the worst he may well want to just maintain friendship, you just show him the courteousy he showed you and carry on as friends... i think he really likes you but it is your turn to make the move so go for it and good luck
2007-03-21 09:02:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa Whoa Whoa, let's not start with physicalities just yet...first off i'm gonna be frank and let's look at the facts...he liked you, dated your friend, says "no", but gives you weird looks...sounds like he's playin games...he dated your friend to get close to you and now that you want him, he wants to feel empowered by it, so he's playin hard to get...i'd say ignore him and watch him come back and say something like (and this must be done in a mentally challenged voice or it's not nearly as funny) "no, i was just messin around i DO like you"...blah blah blah...and then from there you can either take what you want or play your own games...up to you, but yeah let's hold off on the other part... that's not always the answer to gettin a "good" guy...99% maybe but not always.......by the way are you Irish?
2007-03-21 09:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sire_D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about what made you change your opinion of him. Why didn't you like him at the time he liked you? Sometimes, we don't know what we want until someone else wants it. Did you start to like him when your friend was dating him or after they broke up? Try talking to him yourself. Tell him how you feel and what you want. Unfortunately we cant make someone like us. It sucks but the best thing to do would be to continue being his friend. Maybe he will come around and see things your way. But if its too hard for you to be only his friend, then perhaps you should try to move on and distance yourself from him. Immerse yourself in new activities or whatever you have to do until you start thinking about him less and less.
2007-03-21 09:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jazzy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gradually make a more flirty relationship show him how u want more. do this slowly so he can get used to the new idea. if he fancied u before im sure he can again!! last time he proably gave up cos u didnt like him. this time ur relationship can feel different to him. it may take him a while to respond again but dont throw urself at him. play hard to get and im sure he will come running back ;] good luck hun x
2007-03-21 09:02:00 · answer #4 · answered by bella x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont spoil a beautiful friendship but dont deny what your heart tells you. If he's liked you before, theres a good chance he may like u again. Sometimes you just need to be a little patient. Keep being friendly with him and see where things go!
2007-03-21 09:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by only_lil_kez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has called it a friendship, then be the very best of a friend. Show him that you are all that came be expected as a friend and You will win his heart and the very best friend he could ever want...
2007-03-21 09:00:37 · answer #6 · answered by *DestinyPrince* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was u just ask him to his face, for some reason if i like someone and none of mate no i get really angry over it cos everything is locked up inside then i text/ring him (if i have his number) or e-mail him, or anything other way i can talk to him i tell him whats up then i just by angry at him and then tell him y example (sorry i'm angry at u , i don't mean to, i like this guy but i dunno if he likes me?) then he starts to give advice then THEY ALWAYAS ask who is it then just say (its u, but i dunno?) they'll be shocked for a while but they soon get over it. the last time i did that (weiard u no) i found out they like me but i'm going out with him cos he's going to the navy in june (sadly) but anyway maybe u should try it sometime (ask him for advice) and then he'll ask who at least he'll no how u feel about him u'll never no what will happ lol,.
2007-03-21 22:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by amy_baby123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could invite him out to eat
You could ask him to a dance
You could tell him that you like him
I hope that these help!!! =)
Also, I hope your situation gets better. I was just about to ask a guy out that I really really liked, but then he asked out this girl. Everybody has to be heart broken once in their life...
2007-03-21 08:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by ..... 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about the way you feel if you can ,you will know where you stand if ya do.
Remember everbody gets a broken heart in there life and in time it heals.
There is always more fish in the sea!!!!!!!!!
2007-03-21 09:10:37 · answer #9 · answered by iwillifuwill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he was interested he would've told your friend. He isn't, He didn't move on
Get the tears out of your system before this becomes unhealthily all-consuming.
You want something to do? BOX!
2007-03-21 09:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by RedSnook 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋