My husband and I are both Virgo's life is a constant battle is there hope for us?

Answer 1

IN GENERAL
Virgo and Virgo

When two Virgos come together, they are likely to organize their lives in blissful harmony. The merging of two incredibly practical, industrious sorts such as these creates an extraordinary business team and an incredibly devoted and doting couple although public displays of affection will be rare. Though their shared perfectionism and skepticism could lead to conflict, the level-headed Virgo duo will quickly resolve any disputes and move on to the next undertaking.

The Virgo-Virgo relationship runs like a well-oiled machine, particularly for couples that live together or have children. There is never any doubt as to who will do what, and both partners feel quite comfortable with this arrangement. Making lists, balancing accounts, and keeping the house and affairs in order are second nature to both individuals. They share a discriminating palette and champagne tastes. As long as the two don't criticize each other too much, or ride one another's last nerve, their relationship will be fulfilling in every way.

Virgo is ruled by the Planet Mercury. This Planet represents communication, and indeed this is Virgo's forte. As a couple, both are well-tuned to one another's frequencies. Virgo is often able to read the nuances of words and gestures and take in an analytical meaning. One of the strongest points of the relationship is their open and clear channels of communication. Also, the reasoning and logical abilities of two Virgos together can quite possibly master all the problems of the world! They are a dynamic and brilliant team.

Virgo is an Earth Sign, thus indicating a practical nature. Also, they are a couple who likes to own nice things, but who won't settle for second best. It is worth it to hold out for something perfect, rather than to settle for anything less. Virgo is able to weigh all possible options and outcomes before moving forward, and they are the first to determine which action to take that is best for everyone; even if it involves sacrificing themselves. Fussiness and selectivity make the Virgo-Virgo team a wonderful business collaboration, as well as a romantic couple.

Virgo is a Mutable Sign. They are easily adaptable to any situation or any social setting. There is rarely conflict between them, but when it does arise it is quickly dismissed. Neither feel a great pressure to be pushy or domineering, and they share an equal enthusiasm for each other's projects. Virgo always finishes what they start, and two together doubles this energy and make a very productive team.

The best aspect of the Virgo-Virgo relationship is their practical and organized approach to life, work, fun and commitment. They're incredibly compatible, and this shows to one another and to their friends. Together, they make a wonderful pair for pleasing one another and working on the perfect relationship.

Answer 2

Virgo and Virgo

What could be more perfect than two perfectionists together? A relationship between two Virgos has much to attract you both. How could you possibly go wrong with someone who seems to have as much good sense as you? This can be a wonderful partnership if you don't suffer from too much of a good thing.

Because both of you are Mutable Signs, it shouldn't be too hard for you to communicate effectively. In fact, it may be very easy for you to live under the same roof without ever disagreeing on anything. You also share passions of the mind, and will never bore each other. What may be harder is deciding on a mutual direction and goals to work towards... you will need some form of common focus to keep from living in your own separate worlds. Actually, you bring out the very best in each other. You are responsible, sensitive, intelligent, and take love seriously. It would be all too easy to spend all your time peacefully together but immersed in your own separate interests, which is fine some of the time, but doesn't allow for much growth! When you can set goals together and work towards them as a team, there is very little you cannot accomplish.

Sharing the same Mercury-ruled Earth sign generally means you are both practical, organized, and analytical. It should be fairly easy for you to agree on most of the important things, such as which way the toilet paper roll should be hung. But every so often an individual will insist on playing the opposite side of the coin, which means one of you could be incorrigibly disorganized, unfocused, and unrealistic. You will want to be conscious of who is playing what role so that you don't inadvertently create imbalance. Both of you think that there is more in life than sex; so you may end up just talking in bed! However, when both of you are being the best that you can be, you will have nothing to worry about and everything to celebrate.

This combination works best if there is diversity in your Moon and Ascendant signs. With a little diversity between you, this can be a deeply satisfying and exciting relationship. Two heads are better than one, and the same is true with two Virgos. There might be an ongoing contest over who is leader, but you have too much else in common for that to matter. As long as you can curb your disposition for finding fault and find balance in your relationship together, this can be the one who is 'just right'.

Answer 3

Communication is key. Be vocal but gentle with each other and also really try truly listening to one another. Both of you should be and try to be calm when talking to each other. Be serious about all things that are, be firm but gentle,try to not jump down each other's throat and attack. I've done that before once or a few times and it was not successful. Really try to listen to one another and both of you should feel comfortable talking with one another. Some issues might be difficult but it's better to get it out then letting it stay in and drive you insane for not saying something.

Perhaps share in having a cup of tea or go dancing or paint/draw or some other artsy thing together. Just have fun with it.

I'm a Virgo myself and I know it's not that easy dealing with another Virgo at times but it can be done. Some of the books that I've read that have helped me to better understand and how to relate to other Virgos and persons of other signs are Linda Goodman's Love Signs, Sexual Astrology by Martine (It's not just about intimacy, there is some general info about persons of the sign.)

As much as I enjoy spending time together there are times I just need some alone time or just to hang out with friends. It's good and great to spend time together but it's also good to make some time for yourself.

Love is wonderful and precious. Let each other know how much you care for each other. Both of you could try leaving each other notes to say I Love You, Have a great day! Thinking of You or something similar around your home, in a briefcase, jacket/blazer pocket or inside of your/their vehicle.

If the suggestions above don't help the both of you, you two can go together to a clergyperson or relationship counselor whom you trust and try to work things out to try to be happy together again.

I hope this is helpful, these are only suggestions but it doesn't hurt to try. I wish the both of you the best.

Answer 4

The thing with 2 people of the same sign is thay carry the
same personality traits for good and bad....However, there
is some variation due to the other planet placement.
It is all wheather you and he really want this to work or not.
You have to find where you compliment eachother and where
your similar interest are and work on them just like in all other
relationships.
when i think Virgo (my son) There was a little girl with a little
curel right in the middle of her forehead. When she was good
she was very very good. When she was bad she was horrid.
Applies either sex. So you have your work cut out for you two
lovely people by remembering not to bring out the horrid in eachother.

Answer 5

i totally believe in compatibility using astrological signs, but i think there is still hope for yall. it will be hard and long, but try to go back and remember what the first attraction and the first spark was. maybe this will help you over come the battle and realize that you really do love each other. if its that bad try seeing a relationship counselor or, if you into these types of things like i am, go see a fortune teller and see what they have to say about a way to improve your relationship.

Answer 6

you should know that it should be a good match because you are both so much alike and it should work like a well oiled machine so if you work at it I am sure that it will work if not perhaps should go different paths

Answer 7

You need looking at that horoscope nonsense..
Pay attention to the reality of your marriage..

Answer 8

No. We're all doomed.