we're trying to get pregnant,trying every second day?

Question

trying every second day after fertile day. Hes starting to get raw down their. How should he avoid getting raw??I know i can stop for awhile.But any way for it not to get raw??And hes tired at night, and not looking forward every second day.how do i make him look forward to it>>

Answer 1

You are wearing him out. Literally. A friend of mine tried with his wife to get pregnant for 2 years and finally went to a doctor. He asked them how often they had sex and when they told him 4 to 6 times a week, almost fell out of his chair laughing. He told them that his swimmers were too tired to swim and that was why they couldn't conceive. He made them wait 2 weeks with no sex and when they had it, they were to use missionary style with a pillow under her bottom to elevate and help the swimmers and guess what. It worked. They now have 3 boys and 1 girl. If you try this it should help and Your man will be grateful for the rest.

Answer 2

I'm 6 weeks pregnant now. It's strange, my husband and I tried every other day for months, and were never able to conceive. Then we hit a rough spot financially and decided to wait before we tried to have a baby. And 2 months after we stopped trying, I'm pregnant. We both started new jobs and moved into a new place, so our time was very filled up for a few weeks, and we probably only had sex about 4 times that month. Don't try so hard, and it will happen.

Answer 3

Try giving it, and him, a rest. If you're having that much sex, you aren't giving him enough time to 're-arm' anyhow, so you're actually reducing your chances of conceiving.

In the future, you can avoid 'rawness' by using lots of water-based lubricant and drinking lots of water. Hydration and lubrication are the best ways to protect skin from friction burns.

Answer 4

get the ovulation tests. your only fertile a few days of the month so that will give him a break

Answer 5

You're never gonna get pregnant if you keep worrying about it so much. Just stop thinking of it, have fun having sex and relax.

Answer 6

well try some lub to help that... do differnt things to get him to want to do it that much....you can go on line and look up ovulation calender and then u can go by that to and that is what i did and it tell's u when u are ovulating and then that is one way to keep him from getting tyerd

Answer 7

hope this helps and good luck


Fertility Awareness
The Menstrual Cycle
Being aware of your menstrual cycle and the changes in your body that happen during this time can be key to helping you plan a pregnancy, or avoid pregnancy. During the menstrual cycle (a total average of 28 days), there are two parts: before ovulation and after ovulation.

Day 1 starts with the first day of your period.

Usually by Day 7, a woman's eggs start to prepare to be fertilized by sperm.

Between Day 7 and 11, the lining of the uterus (womb) starts to thicken, waiting for a fertilized egg to implant there.

Around Day 14 (in a 28-day cycle), hormones cause the egg that is most ripe to be released, a process called ovulation. The egg travels down the fallopian tube towards the uterus. If a sperm unites with the egg here, the egg will attach to the lining of the uterus, and pregnancy occurs.

If the egg is not fertilized, it will break apart.

Around Day 25 when hormone levels drop, it will be shed from the body with the lining of the uterus as a menstrual period.

The first part of the menstrual cycle is different in every woman, and even can be different from month-to-month in the same woman, varying from 13 to 20 days long. This is the most important part of the cycle to learn about, since this is when ovulation and pregnancy can occur. After ovulation, every woman (unless she has a health problem that affects her periods) will have a period within 14 to 16 days.

Charting Your Fertility Pattern
Knowing when you're most fertile will help you plan or prevent pregnancy. There are three ways you can keep track of your fertile times. They are:

Basal body temperature method - Basal body temperature is your temperature at rest as soon as you awake in the morning. A woman's basal body temperature rises slightly with ovulation. So by recording this temperature daily for several months you'll be able to predict your most fertile days.

Basal body temperature differs slightly from woman to woman. Anywhere from 96 to 98 degrees orally is average before ovulation. After ovulation most women have an oral temperature between 97 and 99 degrees. The rise in temperature can be a sudden jump or a gradual climb over a few days.

Usually a woman's basal body temperature rises by only 0.4 to 0.8 degrees Fahrenheit. To detect this tiny change, women must use a basal body thermometer. These thermometers are very sensitive. Most pharmacies sell them for around $10. You then record your temperature on a special chart.

The rise in temperature doesn't show exactly when the egg is released. But almost all women have ovulated within three days after their temperatures spike. Body temperature stays at the higher level until your period starts.

You are most fertile and most likely to get pregnant:

two to three days before your temperature hits the highest point (ovulation), and
12 to 24 hours after ovulation.


A man's sperm can live for up to three days in a woman's body. The sperm can fertilize an egg at any point during that time. So if you have unprotected sex a few days before ovulation there is a chance of becoming pregnant.

Many things can affect basal body temperature. To get the most useful chart you should take your temperature every morning at about the same time. Things that can alter your temperature include:

drinking alcohol the night before
smoking cigarettes the night before
getting a poor night's sleep
having a fever
doing anything in the morning before you take your temperature -- including going to the bathroom and talking on the phone


Calendar method - This involves keeping a written record of each menstrual cycle on a calendar. The first day of your period is Day 1. Circle Day 1 on the calendar. Do this for eight to 12 months so you know how many days are in your cycle. The length of your cycle may vary from month to month. So write down the total number of days it lasts each time. To find out the first day when you are most fertile, check your list for the cycle with the fewest days. Then subtract 18 from that number. Take this new number and count ahead that many days on the calendar. Draw an X through this date. The X marks the first day you're likely to be fertile. To find out the last day when you are fertile, subtract 11 days from your longest cycle and draw an X through this date. This method always should be used with other fertility awareness methods, especially if your cycles are not always the same lengths.


Cervical mucus method (also known as the ovulation method) - This involves being aware of the changes in your cervical mucus throughout the month. The hormones that control the menstrual cycle also change the kind and amount of mucus you have before and during ovulation. Right after your period, there are usually few days when there is no mucus present or "dry days." As the egg starts to mature, mucus increases in the vagina, appears at the vaginal opening, and is white or yellow and cloudy and sticky. The greatest amount of mucus appears just before ovulation. During these "wet days" it becomes clear and slippery, like raw egg whites. Sometimes it can be stretched apart. This is when you are most fertile. About four days after the wet days begin the mucus changes again. There will be much less and it becomes sticky and cloudy. You might have a few more dry days before your period returns. Describe changes in your mucus on a calendar. Label the days, "Sticky," "Dry," or "Wet." You are most fertile at the first sign of wetness after your period or a day or two before wetness begins. This method is less reliable for some women. Women who are breastfeeding, taking hormonal contraceptives (like the pill) using feminine hygiene products, have vaginitis or sexually transmitted diseases (STDs), or have had surgery on the cervix should not rely on this method.

To most accurately track your fertility, use a combination of all three methods. This is called the symptothermal method.

Answer 8

use more duck butter.