I don't know what to do!! I think My partner is Bi-curious or Bi-sexual. I found some e-mails regarding contact between each other when I was searching for something that he had asked me too. I confronted him about it and he claimed it was a friend that was joking around, but in the letters everything sounded just like how he types and speaks!! But this isn't the first time something like this has come up. We havent been dating for that long and everytime we have talked about it he promises that its not him and he wouldn't waste my time if he was. I REALLY love this guy and he says he loves me also. I don't want to keep harping on the subject with him but im really scared to keep placing my heart out there. HELP! what do I do.....
2007-03-21 08:10:38 · 13 answers · asked by 2cute2bseen 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Honestly i would feel scared too but u need to confront him and not only bee a gf but a friend and tell him be straight forward. Or if he still dosent tell you take some time off and then he will decide what he really wants. Or also maybe hes just playing around believe me guys do that i wk at a const company and many of the workers joke around like that . Just analyze everything and your heart and love will lead you good luck and dont worry too much.
2007-03-21 08:58:33 · answer #1 · answered by devenylee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have zero confidence in yourself and your relationship. Look inside yourself as it may just be you. If all of a sudden your partner has realized that he in not totally gay, then, it is up to the two of you to work it out. You must realize that people, even lovers, lie and hide their utmost secrets.You may lose him to the bi-world or he may just go straight. It happens all the time. Straight couples go through the same thing and even though one or the other is not bi, a lot of them stray with the same gender. Love is complicated between adults, and doesn't work out but about 45% of the time. Just look at the divorce stats.
2007-03-21 08:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by hazel a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm interior the comparable boat - even although we've "relatives" oftentimes and maximum oftentimes at his request. The recommendations that run with the aid of your head are insane, and make you sense insane. the ingredient is purely HE is conscious his real sexuality. Human sexual nature isn't a BLACK & WHITE situation. meaning - there is extra gray areas then the rest. Sexuality is approximately extra then purely intercourse and actual attraction. it is likewise approximately thoughts. Bi-Sexuality or extra particularly Bisexuals are extra condemned then the different sexuality. Heteros prefer each physique to be mainstream. yet, in my comments Homo's/gay's are the worst. they like each physique to be like them. they could not settle for that Sexual nature is fluid for many human beings interior the international. think of roughly and be undemanding with your self - At one time or yet another you have fantasized approximately being with a woman. that's acceptable to each physique at distinctive factors of their existence. They ask your self and fantasize, the reason in the back of it ought to not be the comparable whether that is human nature. He could be a gay on the Down-low yet he additionally could be bi sexual and his point of attraction is extra in the direction of men. yet he more desirable an emotional connection with you that keeps him with you. as long as you and he can talk brazenly approximately this occasion then you definately the two can be sure from there what direction of action is ultimate for each of you on a individual foundation and your relationship.
2016-10-19 06:46:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i have bad experiances with this too. This guy i went out on a few dates, he was bi, and on turned gay on me a month later. It was very humilating. But give this guy a chance. He could be deciding if he wants to be gay or not or he just could be metro (acts gay but isn't). I have a metro friend who we thought for sure he was gay but now he has a girlfriend who he is all over (gross but atleast we know where he stands now).
2007-03-21 08:18:01 · answer #4 · answered by sky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accept your partner for he is, you know sex orientation is just a state it shouldn't be a ground of falling put or leaving out....trust is a must. If you had proved he is bi sexual and you seem not to like it then it only means you don't love him that much.
2007-03-21 08:14:06 · answer #5 · answered by guRl 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He might be bi but so what? Does that mean he doesn't love you??? Lighten up on the guy and enjoy the relationship the two of you have. Stop focusing on his sexuality so much!!!
2007-03-21 08:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by SidTheKid 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Trust is key in a relationship. If you don't have it now, how will you get it? If you can't find a path to get that trust - i.e. what you both must do to get it - then you will never have it. Do you want to be wondering this FOREVER? If you can't get to fully trusting him, and don't want a life like this from now on, your only choice is to end it. Good luck to you.
2007-03-21 08:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by Steven D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get out of the relationship before you get hurt any more there is someone out there that you wont have to worry about so why dont you just try to find him. good luck
2007-03-21 08:13:58 · answer #8 · answered by ya girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assume that he is bi-sexual. If you can't accept this about him, then you need to move on.
2007-03-21 08:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys like to kid around. i do this with some of my guy friends. the girls know we're kidding though because most of them have been with me or him and we've done our part if you know what i mean ;)
2007-03-21 08:14:11 · answer #10 · answered by John Becker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋