Ok, the person I am in love and dating with is giving me the cold shoulder. Due to the fact of me "hurting" her. She said she needs time to get over it and that she is being a baby about it. She talks happily with everyone else and is even wearing another guys watch.(She was also all over him one day) The thing is, I know she is doing it to get back at me...but it feels like someone is constantly pounding on my heart with a hammer. Do I continue to cry? Or act like nothing is wrong?
2007-03-21 08:06:38 · 5 answers · asked by Krissy K 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
In love with and dating**
The hard part is...I'm living with her because of the arrangement of my parents job.
2007-03-21 08:15:13 · update #1
From what you've written, this person is intentionally hurting you. That definitely is an indicator of what you should do, yes?
2007-03-21 08:15:55 · answer #1 · answered by Grace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done that to my girlfriend before, so I say that you should talk to her about it. And if I was you I wouldn't let her see me cry, because I wouldn't want to give her the satisfaction of knowing that it's hurting me but I also wouldn't act like nothing is wrong. Talking about why she's doing it can really help and it could be that she might also want you to talk to her and show that you want to know how she's feeling and why or something like that. I'm not saying that is why she's doing it or that it's a smart thing to do, I'm basing most of this on what I've done and why.
2007-03-21 17:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sabryna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her...she is behaving like a child so treat her like one. Let her know that her behaviour is apt to backfire and make you move on or at least care less.
2007-03-21 16:03:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her some flowers and a poem, give her some time and wait for her to call you
2007-03-21 15:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't understand anything AT ALL. what's up?
whatever there is, talk to her about your feelings.
2007-03-21 15:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by luvsexhappiness 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋