still think older women don't aren't into teen boys?

Question

take a look at some of these responses i got....

'Older women and younger guys are more sexually compatible, than an older woman and an older man. Guys reach their sexual peak in their late teens and early 20's and women reach their sexual peak in their 30's.'

'I think that the highschool and college age guys are cuter and you know more sexy looking..'

'umm...probably a guy around like 16 yrs old
srry
i am being honest'

'most girls i know date guys that arelike in thier early 20's. i like 18, 17, and 16 year olds.'

luckily, the last two are actually high school girls. but i only knew that after looking at their other questions. the questions said they were for older women though, so nobody else should've known that. what i'd like to know is if an older guy says he is into teen girls, he gets chewed out. there is even a question where this is the case, and that guy is 25. how come it is ok for older women?

and if you don't believe me go look for them, these responsed come from my recent questions. and just to let you know i don't think it's right for older guys to have a thing for teen girls. but when they do, it is usually because those girls exhibit qualities that older women also exhibit, not that they are attracted to their age. i think it's ok if a woman has the hots for the 17 year old guy who isn't clearly that young and has qualities that older men have and that's what women find attractive. but i am talking about women who are attracted to that young boy look specifically. when you can tell a boy is 16 when you look at him, women should be turned off immediately. just like men shouldn't be attracted to a girls that is almost definitely not over 18.

yet another response i got...

'I'm 31. I can try to explain it, but I don't want to confuse.....

A woman in my age group gets a major hormone rush. We want sex like we never have before and a lot of it. We're kinda like teenage guys, in that respect. Men in our age group don't have the stamina or the stiffeness they used to.
Sexually, we are more compatible with a much younger guy. We are also nearing the end of our fertility and a younger man who is able to have sex more often is more likely to impregenate us.

So, ita a biological and physical thing. Not every woman acts on it because they prefer the more mature man, but a lot do.'

Answer 1

You've asked this question SEVERAL times, and the VAST MAJORITY of answers (from women in the age group you mention) have said that they ARE NOT attracted to younger men (especially as young as high school, college). Where is the disconnect? Why aren't you getting it? TWO women (the other two were girls) say that it doesn't matter, or that they find them "attractive" (though wouldn't date) and suddenly you have proof that older women are lusting after teen boys? That's just two women, it proves nothing. The MANY others that answered to the contrary demonstrates a lot more...why are you so obsessed with this? Wishful thinking?

Answer 2

I hate to have to point this out simply because your post makes some good points overall, but I'm going to anyway. The theory that men reach their sexual peak in their teens and that women reach their sexual peak in their 30's is wrong... There is simply no scientific fact behind that theory, it’s more of a social reason.

The reason women don’t supposedly reach their sexual peak until their 30's is because for most women, it takes them longer to become comfortable with their own bodies, and lose their inhibitions. Whereas with men... heck the second we discover our own sexuality, we're just DYING to put it into action... whereas with women.. there is still this stigma that you shouldn’t be promiscuous, and you should wait until your married, and don’t sleep with just anyone and so on.

Even there though, if you pay attention you will start to see that women are losing their inhibitions at a MUCH younger age.... hell as a 37 year old man I have been propositioned by more 18 year olds than I would care to think... Why? Because most men their age have no clue what they are doing sexually... and its amazing how younger women have absolutely no problems with a relationship that involves nothing more than sex these days.

So your theory is a little off... I don’t know what the reason for older women wishing to be with younger men... and I will not venture a guess as to a hypothesis... but I just wanted to point out that small part.

Answer 3

I gotta tell you, I wouldn't have anything to do with a teenaged boy or a guy in his 20's. I find maturity, intelligence, manners, etc. sexy beyond anything. I love the way I'm treated by older men - and always have. When I was 20, I lived with a man in his mid-30's. When I got married at 23, I married a man who was 34. I'm currently 41 and living with the most wonderful man who is 57. I just appreciate everything about older men and there's no sexual feeling for younger men at all. I think I would just feel silly.

Answer 4

The quality that the high school "girls" exhibit are called boobs, and boobs do not a woman make... high school girls do not have the experience or backbone of an adult women which tends to make them a good prey for sleezoid men (and women?) to prey upon. The same goes for a high school boys.

Its not ok for men or women to prey on children or teens. Find an adult...

I am a 29 year old female and do not find anything attractive about teenage or early 20's boys or men....

Answer 5

It isn't socially acceptable in either case, but yes, I too am attracted to teen-age boys. I'd never act upon the impulse, and find it repulsive that a person would take advantage of a student, regardless of the genders of the two (whether a priest or a math teacher, seducing a person whom you are supposed to be protecting is unconscionable). Don't even know why... I'm 30 yrs old and have dreams at night about 18-20 yr old boys. Something about that energy, lack of worry, and invincibility of youth that gets lost by about 25.

Answer 6

Depends on what you are talking about. Yeah, I guess I'm into younger men, my husband is three years younger than I am, but we met when I was 39 and he was 36. There's no problem, then. The problem is when an adult is into a teen or child. If that's what you are trying to excuse away, no one is going to give that an OK.

Answer 7

It's not ok. Haven't you heard of the cases against teachers messing with teenage students; Debra Lafave, Mary Kay Letourneau, Pamela Smart, etc.

Answer 8

maybe sexually compatible but MILF or teacher/student idea left my brain when i was 12 and as a teenager i prefer 15-16 year old girls with lots to explore and a new sexual partner is a new journey
I find older girls totally not compatible with me... personality-wise!

Answer 9

societal pressure and standards always make us bend to conformities.

might be true but it would be such a shocker that most women in their 40's wouldn't think twice about a guy in their 20's because all the rumors and bad comments that would become of her actions

even though you might be right

another thing on the same note ( I wouldn't) but girls are ready for sex as soon as they start menstrating, that is nature saying, these ones are ready.. but again social norms don't allow that. And for good reasons, I'll add but we try and constuct things for a society and that is why we abide by these standards and practices

Answer 10

if their 18anything goes they are legal age and really lets say a 29yr old woman meets the love of her life her soilmate but he is 18 if they love each other let them be no one has a right to tell others who to have sex or fall in love with as long as their 18+ you see 20 yr olds marring 80 yr olds n ppl dont say anything but oh shes a gold digger but what if they truly loved each other it maybe wrong for u but others dig it so leave em alone