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As of today March 21st the doctor states that I am 27 weeks old. They are going by my LMS which was Sept. 14th 2006 and only lasted for about 1 day and half. My normal cycles are 3 days long and I did not notify my doctor about this. The cycle before was on Aug. 20th. I slept with different men and I am confused on who could be the farther of my child. By pointing out the dates of conception I could really buckle things down. The following days are dates with each partner. Aug. 31st 2006, Sept. 2nd, 9th, 11-12th (intercourse before cycle) Sept 18-20th, 23rd (intercourse after cycle). With numerous of hours of web research I have not found an answer. FACT: A female is fertile 2 weeks before and after LMP. This is where I am confused about my conception. The day that I found out I was pregnant I have been worried ever since. Could you please help me crack this issue down.

2007-03-21 08:04:36 · 16 answers · asked by emerald8ofaai 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Trying to Conceive

16 answers

im no doctor but u probobly fell preg near the end of sept, i hope that helps

2007-03-25 09:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by claire 3 · 0 0

Lemme try...First, I think if you only bled for a day and a half, most likely it was implantation...esp. since it was so short and 25 days after your last period. Implantation occurs 7-10 days after ovulation...if you usually have a 28 day cycle, and ovulated on day 14 or 15, then 14+10=24 plus the one day it takes to for the blood to come out. Make sense? With that said, if you ovulated Sep 3 or 4, then Sept 2nd is your most likely candidate, followed by the less-likely Aug 31st.
****That "FACT" is only true for a 28 day cycle. BTW, I calculated using a 28 day for you...if you're different, the dates would be different. But this is only my hypothesis. And get a blood test.

2007-03-25 15:36:25 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0 0

How soon was your first ultrasound? The doctor should be able to tell if you were a whole month further along but I have heard stories about it when they haven't. I'd say the best thing for you to do is to talk to your doctor and tell him you think you may have concieved sooner. He should be able to run some tests and look back over the one's done before and come up with an answer for you. If not then you're only other option is to be honest with both men and get a DNA test done. However, I'd put my money on the 2nd guy since the doctor hasn't mentioned anything about you measuring big or anything.

2007-03-21 08:17:40 · answer #3 · answered by Love Me or Hate Me... 4 · 0 0

The only way to know for sure is to have a test done.On the other hand my best guess is to sit down at the calender and mark the last day you had your period.Then about 13 to 14 days after that is usually when you are most pregnant give or take a few day,every woman is different.That's the only thing I can think of that might help you get an idea of who the father is.Just remember that you wont know for sure without a test done.Congratulations to you and good luck with everything.

2007-03-27 06:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by cynomynG 3 · 0 0

they go by an average using your last cycle. on the average its 2 wks but everyone ovulates at different times. Have you had an ultrasound yet? if so, did they change the date? tell the doc you just realized you were off with your period date and ask for an ultrasound (if you havent had one recenlty) and they can get a more accurate date by this by looking at weight, development, etc.
Whats really crazy is that when they say you are 6 wks pregnant you have only been pregnant for 4 wks! They start the date of the date of your last period. (I had a talk with the doc b/c I KNEW for a fact when I got prego) Ask your obgyn about that, you dont have to tell them why-just tell them you got your dates mixed up on your period and you think your due date might be off. You still will probably need to get DNA tests after you have the baby

2007-03-21 08:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by samira 5 · 0 0

you ovulate in any 24 hours during a menstrual cycle. If your cycle is 28 days this is usually day 14. to work out when you ovulate it is 14 days before a period starts not after. for eg if your cycle is normally 30 days then you ovulate on day 16 however sperm can survive for up to five days in the vagina around the cervix. The egg only survives for one day. You are only fertile in that time. Ovulation kits recommend that you have sex in the 48hours from ovulation if you wish to become pregnant. If your cycles were regular then you may be able to work out the most likely day of conception.

2007-03-22 09:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by Benellie 1 · 0 0

You are 25weeks from day of conception as they class you as 2weeks pregnant befre you actually are, so ovulation/conception approx 26th September as sperm stays alive around 56 hours or so the intercourse that was the one is likely to be the 23rd September:o) This of course an estimate and if same person was 18th-20th & 23rd it is highly likely this is the father.
Hope this helps goodluck when he or she arrives.
(The 2weeks before and after LMP is based on average 28day cycle therefore fertile time is 14 days after yet 14 days before:o))
Your baby being due approx 21st June 2008

2007-03-21 11:00:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would guess that it would be the guy after your cycle, but there is not sure way to tell unless you get a DNA test done. And please do not guess at who the father is and tell him hes the father when you do not know for sure. It has happened to a friend and it tore him apart when he found out that he wsant the real father of the child......be fair to both men and the child, even if the man does not want to be part of the childs life, they all deserve to know the truth.

2007-03-25 18:57:11 · answer #8 · answered by Over and Over 5 · 0 0

When they do your ultrasound, they do a quick check on your estimated due date by LMP... if it is more than a month off, they would definetly follow up and adjust the due date or something. So I think you can safety assume that you got pregnant after Sep 14, but no one can say exactly what date.

2007-03-21 10:34:03 · answer #9 · answered by growing inside 5 · 0 0

You can't! The only way to tell who is the baby daddy is a DNA test after the baby is born!

2007-03-21 08:13:59 · answer #10 · answered by Paula A 2 · 0 0

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