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how has having kids affected your marriage? Did you spouse or SO what more kids, if you did have the child, did you marraige suffer? When I decided to have more kids, more me than him, but he did agree for one more( I didn't have to push), now he seems not to be happy with our choice. How did you rebuild your marriage after baby. We have 3 kids ages 5yrs and 4months(twins) As you know from my previous posting and I am also trying to adjust. Need some more reassurance that people get over theses feeling. I want to enjoy ny family and my life. How does one change their attitude to make things better. I'm trying to avoid medication for PPD, but I may have to take it. How can I keep my family strong? This is so scary. P.S I don't want to hurt myself or the kids. Just want to know it gets better and no resentment towards the kids.

2007-03-21 07:56:49 · 2 answers · asked by doubletree 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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you need an outside help. what i mean is you need help in taking care of the kids at least 3x a week especially that you have twins. look at your beautiful kids and all your stress will go away. you're not alone. the marriage will suffer for a while for the kids are still young and they need you all the time to take care of them. it's selfishness when one of the parents will have that regret of having more kids. you will get over this. there will be times that you will break down but look at the bright side. you're a good mom i can tell so please love your kids more than you love yourself and everything will be fine. please arrange a babysitter for you to have time for yourself and your hubby. wish your husband will be more supportive of your situation so talk to him. medication will have side effects and i will not recommend it. take care and good luck!

2007-03-21 08:12:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 5 · 0 0

You just keep letting him old his baby and show him the respect he would like too and be gnetle and loving and dont FEAR. Your child is there you cant put it back. He will come to terms with his child and in the meantime dont walk by feeling and emotions override them and choose to do what is best. Look after what God has given you to look after!

2007-03-21 15:20:38 · answer #2 · answered by uniquechild 5 · 0 0

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